Some time ago, one"Disappearing Her".made many girls call "dare not love", and some people even began to "fear marriage" and "fear of men".
However, the following story may give you a different definition of love!
In 2015, a guy from GuangxiDing Yizhoumade a bold decision to take a terminally ill girlfriend with himLai MinTravel around China.
Although Ding Yizhou only had 200 yuan in his body at that time, he still resolutely chose to set off.
Regarding other people's incomprehension and "persuasion to break up", Ding Yizhou never explained too much.
"I love her and she needs me! ”
This sentence alone is worth a thousand words, making everyone obediently shut up.
Now that 8 years have passed, how are Ding Yizhou and Lai Min doing now? Did the two usher in a heartwarming ending?
Next, let's walk into this romantic and touching love story together!
The fate of Lai Min and Ding Yizhou has to start from when they were children, both of them are from Liuzhou, Guangxi, not only graduated from the same primary school, but also had a beautiful relationship at the same table.
Although the time in elementary school was very short, Lai Min left an indelible impression on Ding Yizhou's heart, like a beam of light, illuminating Ding Yizhou's originally gloomy life.
Because of the divorce of his parents since he was a child, Ding Yizhou's personality has become very inferior and paranoid.
In the teacher's opinion, he is a poor student with a lot of problems, and in the eyes of his classmates, he is a violent maniac who often fights, so both teachers and students don't like Ding Yizhou very much.
Unlike Ding Yizhou, Lai Min is not only a good learner, but also very helpful, and is recognized as an excellent student by teachers and students.
Although they are classmates, Ding Yizhou and Lai Min actually don't have much intersection with each other, and what makes the two really bond is to start with a seat assignment.
When the seats were divided, Ding Yizhou was unsurprisingly placed in the last row near the trash can.
I thought it would be Ding Yizhou, who was accompanied by the trash can, but I didn't think that someone would take the initiative to be at the same table with him this time.
Lai Min, who was supposed to be sitting in the front row, walked straight to Ding Yizhou and sat down next to Ding Yizhou in the stunned eyes of the whole class, and greeted him friendly"We will be at the same table from now on, please advise! ”
Lai Min's arrival caused a ripple in Ding Yizhou's original life, and at the same time made Ding Yizhou's personality more cheerful.
Under the influence of Lai Min, Ding Yizhou no longer hated learning, and the two would often learn problems together, and sometimes they would go home from school together.
Gradually, Lai Min's weight in Ding Yizhou's heart became heavier and heavier, and Ding Yizhou's heart also had an idea of wanting to protect Lai Min for the rest of his life.
It's a pity that Ding Yizhou, who had poor grades, chose to go out to work before graduating from junior high school, and his classmates with Lai Min stopped there.
Due to his lack of education and his young age, Ding Yizhou's job was not smooth, and Ding Yizhou, who ran into walls everywhere, finally came to a barber shop as an apprentice.
On the other hand, Lai Min was successfully admitted to high school after completing his junior high school studies, and then entered university with excellent grades.
During this period, there was almost no contact between Ding Yizhou and Lai Min.
Although Ding Yizhou at this time already has his own barber shop and his living standard has been significantly improved, in his opinion, he is completely a big old man who has not graduated from junior high school, and he and Lai Min are people from two worlds at all, even if they like it, there will be no results.
So Ding Yizhou clicked on Lai Min's chat box several times, and finally chose to quit silently.
Although he has never taken the initiative to find Lai Min, Ding Yizhou will pay special attention to every circle of friends of Lai Min.
I'm afraid that if it weren't for the following circle of friends, Ding Yizhou would not dare to take the initiative to chat with Lai Min in his life.
And it was this circle of friends that became the beginning of the love between the two!
On March 10, 2014, after closing, Ding Yizhou took out his mobile phone to check Lai Min's circle of friends as usual.
Lai Min asked a question in the dynamic, what would happen to everyone if he died?
After seeing this dynamic, Ding Yizhou's nerves tensed up suddenly, and this inexplicable passage made Ding Yizhou realize that Lai Min was likely to encounter some difficulties.
Afraid that it would be too presumptuous to ask the other party suddenly, Ding Yizhou decided to inquire about his classmates in elementary school first.
This inquiry made Ding Yizhou's heart pinch up, and he also sincerely felt sorry for what happened to Lai Min.
At the age of 21, Lai Min was diagnosed with "penguin disease", a disease in which patients will walk and wobbly like penguins, and will gradually lose the ability to speak, breathing will become more and more difficult, and eventually die because of cerebellar atrophy and unable to stand.
Lai Min was not surprised by the test results, because her mother suffers from the disease, and most of the disease is passed on to the next generation.
Originally, Lai Min thought that if she came to her, she would be safe, since she couldn't change the status quo, she would enjoy life and live one more day, even if her boyfriend who had been in love for many years left her because of this, she was only sad for a short time.
It's just that what Lai Min didn't expect was that her pain had just begun, two years later, Lai Min's father died in an accident, and just when Lai Min had not yet come out of the pain of losing her loved ones, Lai Min's mother also followed her husband.
In just nine days, Lai Min suddenly became an orphan without a father and mother, which undoubtedly completely extinguished her motivation and hope to live.
With no parents, no job, and no love, Lai Min suddenly felt hopeless in life, and lived a life of eating and waiting for death in a rental house every day.
In order to rekindle Lai Min's fighting spirit for life, Ding Yizhou began to take the initiative to chat with Lai Min.
From the past in elementary school, to the experience after graduation, to the future prospects, the topics between the two have become more and more.
Over time, the two lonely hearts slowly came together.
On this day, just as he was about to end his daily chat, Ding Yizhou suddenly said to Lai Min the "like" that had been buried in his heart for a long time, and said that he wanted to take care of her for the rest of her life.
Regarding Ding Yizhou's sudden confession, Lai Min chose to refuse while being overjoyed.
Because in Lai Min's opinion, if he really agreed to Ding Yizhou, it would undoubtedly become his biggest burden.
Since then, Lai Min has begun to avoid Ding Yizhou intentionally or unintentionally, and she feels that after a long time, Ding Yizhou's liking will gradually fade.
It's just that what Lai Min didn't expect was that Ding Yizhou didn't intend to "let her go", and after his confession was rejected, Ding Yizhou chose to come to Nanning, wanting to completely capture Lai Min's heart with practical actions.
"Why are you doing this? In my current form, I will only be a burden to you! ”
"I don't care about that, I just have to be with you. ”
At this moment, Lai Min understood that she no longer had any reason to refuse Ding Yizhou's confession.
In this way, Lai Min followed Ding Yizhou back to Liuzhou again and met the other party's mother.
It's just that the first meeting was not pleasant!
For her son's girlfriend, Ding Yizhou's mother had a cold face throughout the whole process, and even put down cruel words on the spot, if Ding Yizhou didn't break up with Lai Min, then the mother-son relationship would be severed in the future.
On the one hand, he loved his mother the most, and on the other hand, he was his beloved girlfriend, and for a while, Ding Yizhou fell into a dilemma.
After some thought, Ding Yizhou finally chose Lai Min, because in Ding Yizhou's view, at this moment, only he is Lai Min's dependence, and once he leaves himself, Lai Min's life after that will be difficult.
And Ding Yizhou also believes that Lai Min's kindness will impress his mother sooner or later, but his mother still needs some time to adapt.
Thinking of this, Ding Yizhou took Lai Min to start a life of renting a house and living together.
In order to be able to cure Lai Min's illness, Ding Yizhou did not hesitate to take out his savings for many years to take Lai Min around to seek medical advice.
It's just that the money was spent, but Lai Min's condition did not improve at all, but became more and more serious.
In the winter of 2014, the doctor's diagnosis completely extinguished all hopes for Ding Yizhou and Lai Min.
One day, Lai Min inadvertently said that he wanted to travel, but Lai Min also knew that in order to treat her, Ding Yizhou had spent all his savings, and even owed a large amount of foreign debt, so his dream could only become a regret.
However, what Lai Min didn't expect was that Ding Yizhou took his words to heart.
"Let's go on a tour! Go and see the world. ”
On this day, Ding Yizhou suddenly took out a map marked with a heart shape, and said that he wanted to walk out of a "heart shape" with Lai Min in China.
On January 1, 2015, Ding Yizhou and Lai Min started this romantic and great trip with only 200 yuan.
In order to solve the accommodation problem, Ding Yizhou and Lai Min would choose to set up a tent on the side of the road, and when they were hungry, they would make their own fire and cook, although the conditions were very poor, but the two never complained.
When he really has no money, Ding Yizhou will use his skills to give other people's haircuts in the open place, or go to work on construction sites, and when he has almost saved up, he will continue to set off towards the next destination.
On May 16, 2015, Ding Yizhou and Lai Min arrived in Lhasa, and in the presence of the Potala Palace and many tourists, Ding Yizhou proposed to Lai Min.
After Ding Yizhou's marriage proposal was posted on the Internet, it instantly touched countless netizens, and Ding Yizhou's mother also let go of her prejudices after seeing **, and called Ding Yizhou to ask him to take good care of Lai Min.
In 2016, after the two arrived in Xinjiang, Lai Min unexpectedly found out that she was pregnant, but after being examined by the doctor, she was told that the child had a hereditary disease, and in desperation, the two had to choose to kill the child.
However, Lai Min, who was already weak, undoubtedly brought more irreversible damage to her body after experiencing this miscarriage, and since then, Lai Min has completely lost the ability to move.
After this incident, Ding Yizhou decided not to have children in the future, as long as the two of them are safe.
However, Lai Min didn't think so, she always felt that she owed Ding Yizhou too much, and now she can't even deprive the other party of her right to be a father.
Perhaps the love between the two touched the heavens, in 2019, Lai Min was pregnant again, this time, the baby in the womb was very healthy, and the doctor also said that there would be no genetic disease.
In the same year, Lai Ning gave birth to a daughter and named her "Anning", hoping that she would be peaceful for the rest of her life!
Now, 8 years have passed since the two traveled around China, and in the past eight years, the love between the two has not diminished at the beginning, and Ding Yizhou will often share the daily love of the two.
It's just a pity that Lai Min's condition still hasn't been effective**, and there is a tendency to worsen, but even so, Lai Min has never been afraid, because she knows that her "knight" will always guard her!
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