Then last time, let's learn together "The Art of Closing the Technique" in my opinion, this book is also a book for psychological counselors, to put it bluntly, it is to let others speak, say what they want, what is the job of a psychological counselor, is to understand each other, what are the uses of self-learning,
In our interactions with people, it is inevitable that there are all kinds of contradictions, after learning you will at least understand a lot of human problems, sometimes a sentence can kill a person, sometimes a sentence can affect a person for a lifetime, and there are some things that can not be obtained, don't ask too much, medicine respects the laws of nature!
Suppose, Xiao Li opened a company, it's not bad, but his family and friends also want to join, so how does Xiao Li use the "art of slamming" to let these people say their true thoughts, I think we will always encounter in real life, cooperate with others, and even the relationship between husband and wife, the same, the marriage is so happy that they all follow the "way of heaven and earth", what is the essence of divorce.
Is it a material reason, maybe they are both stronger and unwilling to show weakness, because husband and wife also belong to partners, "strong" and "weak" are not good, strong and strong, here we can explain "yang yang" and so on weak is "yin", we must be considerate of each other, just like day and night, it is impossible to be sloppy at all, just like the wife gave birth to you "dragon and phoenix fetus" has a son and a daughter, combined with the word "good" in layman's terms, maybe this mother no longer has to suffer from October pregnancy, because the demands she wants have been obtained! This is the lowest version! Those of us who have read the Book of Changes know that the Book of Changes also allows us to understand how to deal with anyone, things, and things! Including the laws of nature! "Zhou Yi Benyi" said: The earth, the image of Kun, is also the same. Therefore, it is not important to say that its momentum is smooth, and it is seen that its superiority and inferiority are infinite, and the smoothness is extremely thick, and it is omnipresent.
Finally, let's talk about the topic of depression, depression mostly belongs to self-enclosed personality characteristics, it is difficult for ordinary people to see, and they don't want to tell anyone, but they just can't understand themselves in their hearts, and can't "break the ice" for themselves From the outside, they are very healthy, there are actually nights, winter, this season, sometimes it is excessive self-condemnation, even if it is a little thing, it is very painful, we I have seen young poets,
once wrote the fire song "Sadness Flows Into a River", but how many people understand his song in person? Depression is not a serious illness, but it has a lot of psychological trauma, including our intestinal flora, which has been shown by research! I hope you and I can enjoy each day and try to overcome any challenge! Come on every day!