Mr. Yang Jiang said: In this life, less care and less talk is a blessing, nosy and thankless, gossip will provoke right and wrong. Take care of your own business, don't block others, and don't cause trouble for yourself.
As an adult, the greatest sobriety in life is to take care of yourself, not to cross others, and paying for other people's mistakes is the least worthwhile thing in this world.
Let the flowers become flowers and let the trees become trees, this is the first lesson that adults need to learn.
The reason why humans are so annoyed most of the time is because they are always trying to convince others.
In fact, no matter what kind of relationship that person has with you, you will find that this kind of argument aimed at persuading others is often fruitless, after all, if you don't think you are doing the right thing, then why should you do it?
A sense of boundaries is crucial, everyone is the master of their own territory, and they have the right to decide what colors they like, what profession they study, what job they want to get, and who they spend their lives with.
In the Bible, there is a story that in ancient times, people who spoke the same language and lived in the same land, decided to build a "Tower of Babel" in order to demonstrate the power of mankind. ”
God was very angry, he felt that if mankind was so united, he would not be able to rule the world, so they gave mankind a different language, and mankind quarreled every day because of the language barrier, and the Tower of Babel was not built.
If God has given humans such qualities, why do we have to convince others? We think we're saving others, and maybe others think we're ill-intentioned.
A gentleman is quick to say and quick to do. Smart people know that arguments are useless, and if you want to get a person to accept a new point of view, then show him, and when he finds out that you have succeeded, he may imitate your approach.
I like what Wang Zhiwen said: People teach people, they can't teach, things teach people, they can do it once.
When a person really encounters something, he may remember what others said and regret that he didn't listen to you, but if you go back to that moment, he still won't listen.
If you don't reach the heart of the Yellow River, you won't die, and you won't turn back if you don't hit the south wall. Some people's lives are so smooth that they stick to their opinions and are reluctant to make changes, but when they hit the wall, they will know that they have made a mistake.
As the old saying goes: summer insects can't speak of ice, well frogs can't speak of the sea, and ordinary people can't speak of the Tao.
Everyone's cognition is limited by his environment, you can't expect the illiterate to be able to read, and you can't expect the summer cicada to understand winter. Maybe you're trying to pull someone out of the quagmire, and they just think you're jealous of their success.
What's more, we are all mortals, how do you know that you must be right?
If you tell others about your experience, they won't listen, and even if they do, they won't succeed. When the time comes, all the mistakes will be yours alone.
Remember, the weaker the ability, the more absolute and opinionated you will become; The real strong people often don't spin in a dead end.
Everyone's life is very different, and no matter how anxious you are, you can't go through someone's life for others. It's going to rain, my mother is going to get married, so let him go.
Man is a strange species, and most people like to interfere in other people's lives under the banner of "for your good".
But when the result is not good, those who are "good for you" will hide behind their backs and shout: I didn't know it would be like this, don't blame me.
Everyone's situation is different, what is right for you may not be suitable for others, and you give your experience to others, but others may not be beneficial.
What's more, once he speaks deeply, it is very likely that he will encounter backlash, and the credit for his success is his own, and once he fails, it will be your mess up with ideas.
Gen-la Hongyi: If you want to make your energy field clean, don't get entangled with others at will. Remember one sentence, I respect your fate, understand your limitations better, and it doesn't matter what you do, and it really doesn't matter. As long as you don't get entangled with people, you can maintain a good attitude.
Don't intervene in other people's private spaces, they won't feel grateful, they will only feel offended, and even if they do change in the end, they won't take credit for it.
It is a person's cultivation to only act when others ask for help, and not to meddle in other people's lives at will.
Everyone's situation is different, some people talk to him about high numbers, and he can answer them fluently; Some people tell him about 1+1=2, and he has to tell you that 1+1=3, so why bother arguing with such people.
Arguing with unworthy people will lower your level, and arguing with stupid people will waste your time.
On the other hand, if everyone takes care of themselves, won't the world be a better place?
For the rest of your life, may you take care of yourself and don't cross others.