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After watching Huang Bo's recent interview, the host asked Huang Bo: "Have you ever been coldly watched? ”
Of course, Huang Bo said it frankly. No way, when I used to sing, people always looked at me coldly.
Because you're not good-looking, you're not famous, and no one cares about you. Sometimes I come home late and the bus doesn't wait. I ended up having to squeeze into a food delivery truck.
Now it's completely different. After work, your car will be waiting nearby, and you will meet all kinds of kind people.
Huang Bo said simple words and simple truths. When you are weak, there are many people who bully you, and it is useless for you to be angry and complain.
The only way to get better is to work hard. If you get stronger, the whole world will be happy for you.
Remember the saying: "You can't change the weather, but you can change the mood." "You can't control others, but you can control yourself.
It's better to be angry than angry. Don't complain, change.
Why are the weak always prone to being bullied? In fact, this is the same essence as the "bullying" of animals.
When the lion hunts prey in the grassland, the king of beasts will especially choose the weakest zebra to hunt, because the opponent has no ability to resist, and the cost of eating the weak zebra is the lowest.
Animals have a tendency to bully people, and so do humans.
A few years ago, when my family was building a new house, I negotiated with my second uncle's family next door to set aside a 1-meter-wide piece of land as an alley to facilitate the construction and decoration of the exterior wall. Done. Future.
My family reserved a 1m house according to the agreement, but I didn't expect the second uncle's family to reserve it, and it also occupied part of my land.
For many years, there was only one elderly person in the family. The family's financial situation is not very good. If someone claims to occupy a piece of your land, you have no power to object.
When you're weak, the person who bullied you won't even say hello.
Life is really helpless. The weaker you are, the more people will bully you.
Chen Danqing said: "I rarely get angry because I don't think there's any need to be angry. "If you have a problem, fix it yourself. Don't let someone else's mistakes affect you.
It's better to be angry than to be successful, and it's worse to complain than to change. Smart people strive for success and know how to change.
You will be bullied when you are weak, but the only way to do that is to learn not to be angry and then learn to others off to death.
In this case, the best revenge is to use your own excellence and strength to silence others.
The Seven Tyrants have a saying:
The only way for the weak to rise in the darkness is to allow themselves to shine.
I mean:
Remember, when you are a cat, your goal is to become a tiger. Remember, when you became a tiger, you were also once a cat.
No matter how strong or weak you are, don't underestimate anyone, let alone overestimate yourself, just do yourself quietly.