A few days ago, it was reported in the news that a train from Jinan to Guangzhou overturned due to a landslide, killing one person and seriously injuring four others.
Many people can't help but lament that life is so fragile. I don't know which will come first, tomorrow or the accident.
There were many family members on this trip, including parents, husbands, and wives. Maybe it's the kids.
Life is very long, so we always think that there are countless opportunities to start over, and the future is very long, there are always people waiting for us, and there is always a chance to make up for all our regrets.
However, when the disaster actually happened, it was discovered that life could not stand the wait. If you have something to say, don't hide it in your heart. Nothing is more important than having you by my side.
1.The so-called goodbye, no more goodbye.
I saw this sentence on Weibo:
My only goal for 2020 is to stay alive.
It seems like a simple life, but in fact it hides a lot of shock. We always think that there are countless tomorrows, but we don't know that things are impermanent. The plague of 2020 has made it clear to us that what you think tomorrow is not necessarily the same as ours.
There is a saying: "There are three things in life that are irretrievable: time, life, and love." No matter how much we try to catch them, we go with the flow. ”
You never know what's going to happen first, whether it's tomorrow or an accident. How many accidents do we have to lose loved ones, and how much time is enough time to love them?
On March 7, 2020, a hotel in Quanzhou suddenly collapsed, trapping more than 70 people who had been quarantined due to the novel coronavirus infection, eventually killing 29 people.
A man was rescued at the scene. Before coming out of the rubble, he pointed in the direction of his wife and children and shouted, "Save my wife and children!" "I'm going to save my wife and children.
The world is very unavoidable, and life and death can happen in a matter of seconds.
The inability to save his wife in an accident is enough to destroy all the physical strength of a middle-aged man.
Reader's Farewell" wrote:
In the process of parting, nature completes the cycle of the seasons. In fact, the same is true of human society. Under this sky, there are neither mountains nor water, only water. "All kinds are full of goodbyes. ”
The so-called life is a process of slow loss, and everyone who is taken away in an accident is a father, mother, wife and children, friends, and relatives.
I always thought there were a lot of farewell rituals in this world, like drinking, traveling, or just crying. But then I discovered that most of the partings in life are silent. One day's encounter turned out to be like this: from then on, even if we were far away from the mountains and rivers, we never had the opportunity to meet again.
2.Life is impermanent, cherish the present.
I still remember Qianqian, a Wuhan girl who lost her mother due to the epidemic.
On January 23, 2020, the day of the lockdown in Wuhan, Qianqian's mother and father were quarantined in separate hospitals. At that time, my mother's condition was already very serious.
Two days later, on New Year's Day, I received a ** from the hospital informing me that my mother had passed away.
Just two months ago, Qianqian's mother came to help Qianqian clean up the house and bought a lot of spices for Qianqian, but the expired cake was still falling.
It all felt like it was yesterday.
Zenimae said in an interview with [Phoenix News]:
Before, I didn't feel my mom around, but when she wasn't, I felt like the tampon was suddenly removed on a dark and cold night. Exposed to endless blizzards. ”
We walked slowly, always thinking that we still had a long, long way to go, and a lot of things that we hadn't done together, but at the end of the day, we couldn't even say a good word, and we never had a chance. See you again.
Life is indispensable. Little do we know that some people don't even have a chance to get angry when we get angry or blame our loved ones for not doing what we want.
In the latest episode of "Ace vs. Ace", Liu Yan talked about his late father.
Liu Yan said that he had only seen his father wear a suit twice in his life. The first time was a wedding photo of his parents, and the second time was a wedding held by Liu Yan for his parents.
Liu Yan's father also said the same. "When I get married, I'll wear a suit again. ”
It's just that he can't wait for his daughter's wedding.
A month later, Liu Yan's father died of stomach cancer.
On the show, Liu Yan choked up and said: "If your loved ones are still alive, give them everything you have and say everything you want to say. Don't make them feel like they're not worth it. ”
Chen Erin once said:
Breakups are frustrating. Because there will always be a time to say goodbye and we will never see each other again.
So, before it's too late, hug your family and cherish them while they're alive and while they're still together.
If you cherish the present, you will have fewer regrets in the future.
3. Don't leave regrets in life.
Please answer 1988" wrote:
Time passes, time brings separation, and time leaves regrets. ”
Don't wait until tomorrow or an accident, live well, be healthy now, and cherish the people in front of you. Time passes, emergencies can't, but what we can do is cherish the days in front of us.
We meet a lot of people in our lives. Some will stay with you forever, while others will say goodbye in a hurry. There are some loves that we always ignore, and some beautiful things that we always miss.
But sooner or later we'll all have to say goodbye, so why not make the most of this time? Meet the people you want to meet right now, say what you want to say today, and do what you want to do. Please do it. The time we spend together is always important.
The best thing in the world is that you're still here.
So now: listen to your family and don't pour your worst emotions and emotions on the people who love you the most. Also, don't yell or complain about the people who love you.
Spend time with your family and talk to them while you're together. Please help her when you are busy. Even when you're not around, give her an occasional ** to let her know you miss her.
Never say that the future is long. In this world, people wave away.
Life is impermanent, and living is just a fluke.
By being prepared, you can respond to the unexpected.
I read the comments. Breaking up isn't scary, it's breaking up that's scary.
So I hope that for the rest of your life, everything you hold dear will not be understood after you have lost it.