Many people yearn for rural life, in fact, if you really live in the countryside, you will understand that the biggest problem in the countryside is noise + dust + cold.
In the countryside of the north, there is one feeling in winter: to live and suffer.
Because there is no central heating in the countryside, whether you use air conditioners, electric oil tins, or baseboard heaters, you don't use them, and you still feel cold. Whether it's washing, cooking, studying, or working, it's inconvenient. I feel shrunk and uncomfortable when I go.
A warm place is a suitable place for human habitation. In warm places, I prefer to wake up early, study and work, and exercise.
People will slowly move south, they will move to the cities.
People are products of the environment, and ordinary people are shaped by the environment.
Unless you are a particularly good person, you can stay positive no matter what the environment is; Ordinary people can't do it, I'm just an ordinary person. The simplest point is that I can't get up in the morning when it's cold, and I don't want to study or work when I'm in a bad mood.
Between people, it's hard to really get to know each other. Many couples, it can be said that more than 90% of couples, although they live together every day, they have never really entered each other's hearts.
Husbands and wives, friends, partners, all the same.
Everyone has their own hidden secrets or another side that they don't know that they never show to anyone.
When a person likes another person, or hates another person, it is often because of an action, a momentary event, such as seeing him quarrel with someone else and say something nasty, or seeing him look like when he is arguing with someone else......
Moreover, everyone is changing, and they are all changing.
Some people were sincere in the past and hypocritical now; Some people used to be very innocent, but now they are very promiscuous; Some people used to be upright, but now they are sleek ......
Everything is possible.
You can't see the world with your previous eyes, and you can't look at a person with your previous eyes.
Bill Gates said that people tend to overestimate what can be achieved in the short term in one or two years and underestimate the progress that can be made in the long term in 10 years.
For example, what changes can a year or two of writing bring to you? There may not be much change, but ten years of writing can make a huge difference to you.
What changes can a year or two of fitness bring to you? You may not see any changes, but with ten years of fitness, a lot may change.
No matter what you do, stretch out the time, use ten years of patience to do everything, see everything, you will gain a different perspective.
People must learn to control their emotions, not to be angry at every turn, to be indignant at every turn, and to say "I'm mad" at every turn.
Stay away from those who get angry at every turn, get angry at every turn, like to sulk, like to let others guess, and once they get angry, they don't recognize their relatives, these people are emotional burdens, will consume our precious energy, and will hinder our success.
When, when you look at most of the news and feel very naïve, without emotion, instead of being indignant at every turn, you look at your savings and find that there are 5 million. It's that amazing.
When you don't have 5 million, just think about one thing, who has it? Who has it around me? Who can change my fate, go to kowtow, apprentice, there is.
In life, making money is the king, many things are walls for you, but for those who know, it is a layer of paper.
When it comes to making money, as long as you are tired, the direction is not right. For those who can make money, making money is as simple as eating, sleeping, drinking and breathing.
Every poor person has a deserved side, a cognitive defect or a character defect.
Most of people's money is not spent on eating, drinking, and having fun, but is wasted by making mistakes.
When you are young, you are greedy for pleasure, you don't want to make progress, and you feel that life is still long, and it is easy to waste your youth.
People's best years are often wasted, and then they are lost and regretted only then.
If a person can understand what is noble and opportunity before the age of 30, he can basically widen the gap with his peers.
At this point, you should wake up early, know what you are suitable for, know what you want.
Ignorance is not terrible, ignorance is terrible to the point of not knowing your own ignorance.
Nowadays people are very impetuous and superficial. The impulse and ability to boast about something beautiful when they see something beautiful is being lost by most people.
When you see good things and beautiful people, you must praise them more, because praise can really make a person more confident and make others like themselves more. Everyone likes people who pursue beauty in their hearts, beauty is goodness, beauty is truth, truth, goodness and beauty, in fact, it is a meaning.
Our current life situation is basically determined by the quality of decisions made two or three years ago, so what we do now is determining the state of life in two or three years.
Think about what you want to accomplish and what kind of life you want to live in two or three years, so start making a plan now, and then break it down into a daily plan and implement it into a daily list.
Today I went to see a movie "Flying Life 2", which is not bad, the biggest impression this movie gives me is that time flies too fast.
The first part of "Flying Life" was five years ago, in 2019, at that time, Zhang Chi played by Shen Teng was still vigorous and ambitious, and won the first place in the car rally, but I didn't expect that five years later, Shen Teng was already old, his face was full of wrinkles, he had lost his ambition and vitality, and he could only be a driving school instructor.
When the first part of "Flying Life" was screened, I was still in love with a girl, spending every day before and after the moon, life was full of beauty, five years later, things have long been wrong, and I have long been out of contact, what happened five years ago seems to be a lifetime ago.
Shen Teng is getting old, and the audiences we watch his movies are also slowly getting older with the movies. So, if you want to do something, don't wait, you must hurry, time waits for no one.
Middle-aged people, if you don't seize the opportunity to fight, you may never have a chance in the future.
Watching this movie, I only remember one sentence, the navigator said to Shen Teng, it's okay, there will be a chance in the future, Shen Teng said, no, I know very well that such an opportunity will only appear two or three times in a lifetime.
Life's chances are very rare. Most of the time, the conditions are ready, but you are not ready; Or, you're ready, but the conditions aren't.
What to do? You can't wait until everything is ready to act. Once an opportunity is missed, it may never come back again.
Whether you are ready or not, you have to take the risk and fight once the opportunity comes, otherwise you may leave a lifetime of regrets.
When you meet someone you love, you should be bold to love, regardless of whether it has any results.
Kafka wrote to Milena that if you fall in love with someone, you wish that tomorrow would be the end of the world, so that you can love without scruples, love madly, and do not need to be so restrained and rational because of the long time.
People may only have one or two opportunities to meet true love in their lives, and once they miss it, they will never have the opportunity to experience love in this life.
When you encounter something you want to do, let it go, no matter how it turns out, at least you won't leave regrets.
Life is a journey, don't hold back, be bold and let go of the experience.
In the square of the riverside park in the past two days, many people are setting off fireworks, there are empty boxes of fireworks all over the ground, and there are hundreds of people near the square, some people are setting off fireworks, some people are shooting, some people are watching others, it is very lively.
Fireworks are a luxury, and it costs one or two hundred yuan to buy a random one, and a few hundred yuan to buy a large firework, but it will be finished in a few seconds or tens of seconds.
The most curious thing about fireworks is that the people who spend hundreds of thousands of dollars to buy fireworks are just as beautiful as the onlookers, but the people who light the fireworks and the people who watch the fireworks still feel different. Watching one thing and participating in one thing feels completely different.
Also, long-distance **fireworks, and fireworks a few meters away from the fireworks site, the scenery you see is different, one is a floor plan, the other is a three-dimensional view, the sound heard is different, one is the background**, the other is the roar of the battlefield, the feeling is completely different.
Standing in different positions, you see the truth differently, and this is true for everything.
You feel that it is getting harder and harder to make money, and others may feel that making money has been easy.
You feel that life is getting harder, and others may feel that life is getting better.
You feel that the people around you are all bad people, and others may feel that the people around you are good people.
The environment is different, the ability is different, the cognition is different, and the world you see is different.
The pessimists are right, and the optimists move forward. There are people who live a nourishing life at all times, and our goal is to be such a person, not to complain about this era.
In a cold winter, it doesn't matter how cold it is in someone's house and how hot it is in someone's house, it doesn't matter how cold it is in winter, it matters whether your home is cold or hot.
It doesn't matter whether it's easy or not to make money in the whole market this year, it's important whether you can make money this year.
It doesn't matter how the Americans live, it doesn't matter how the Japanese live, it matters how they live.
Don't pay attention to the news, don't pay attention to others, only focus on yourself, only focus on making money, learn from people who have results, apprentice, and be in the company of ambitious people.
Be sure to focus 80% of your time and energy every day on the most important thing.
Wake up early every day and do the most important things of the day in the morning.
Adhere to long-termism and do one thing with a ten-year mentality.
Don't go to the involution with most people, but to find a remote track that suits you and do the ultimate in this subdivision.