I was 72 years old, hospitalized and rejected my son's service, and when I called my nephew, he panicked.
Hello, my name is Huang Qilin, and I am 72 years old this year.
I live in a rural village and am an old farmer. With the relocation of the village, I chose to build a house on the side of the road in the town.
Even though I moved to town, I still rode my 28 bike to the village every morning to farm and then back home in the evening. Over the past few decades, day after day, year after year, life has lived like a picture of a constant cycle, with little new thing.
Before I knew it, I was already celebrating my 72nd birthday. At this age, I gradually felt the passage of time, as if half of my body had been immersed in the loess, and I didn't know when I would never be able to break free again.
Now I am an elderly person living alone, my wife passed away a few years ago, and my son is settling down in the county.
Recently I was hospitalized, but to my disappointment, my only son never came to take care of me. He was invited twice and twice, but there was no positive response. And when I finally called my nephew in to take care of him, he seemed completely panicked.
Life is like a picture, unpredictable. With the passage of time, my expectations for life have become more simple, and I only hope to get some care and companionship for the rest of my life.
Frankly, I feel a little frustrated, because now I feel that if I knew that my son would be so unfilial, I should have had more children in the first place.
Not long ago, I rode my bicycle to the countryside, preparing to go into the mountains to cut firewood and collect some firewood to burn at home.
However, fate always works against people at the most unfortunate times. After walking for so many years, my foot slipped and I fell that day.
I felt okay when I fell, no pain at all, but strangely, I just couldn't stand up.
In desperation, I had to quickly call my son, hoping that he would come and pick me up.
But my son didn't show concern for me on the other side, but was concerned about whether I could still walk.
He said: "The county seat is 30 kilometers away from you, which is too far, if you can walk, you can go first." ”
When I heard my son's words, I wanted to reproach him, but before I could say anything, an old friend, Ah Hua, saw me.
When Ah Hua saw me, he immediately asked, "Lao Lin, what's wrong with you?" ”
I sighed and said, "It's really unlucky, I wanted to go up the mountain to pick up some firewood, but I fell and now I can't even get up." ”
Eventually, Ah Hua carried me down the mountain, and his son drove me to the township clinic on a tricycle.
After the initial examination at the health center, although my leg did not seem to hurt much, it was actually quite serious, and I needed to go to the county seat as soon as possible to take an X-ray to confirm the diagnosis.
So, I was sent to the county seat and went to the county people's hospital.
During this period, Ah Hua has been with me through all the processes.
Because before going to the county seat, I called my son **, told him that the situation was a bit serious and needed to go to the people's hospital, and asked him to come and wait for me quickly.
But the son still didn't show too much nervousness, just said calmly: "Contact me when you get there." ”
However, when he arrived at the county people's hospital, his son still did not appear.
Ah Hua originally planned to accompany me to the county seat, and then went home. But seeing that my legs and feet were inconvenient, he temporarily decided to help me again, taking me to pay the fee, take a film, and have a physical examination, and he handled a series of preliminary procedures.
It wasn't until his son came over that Ah Hua left.
The doctor told me that my bone was broken and that I needed to have a surgical connection and that I would have to remove it when it had grown.
I was placed in the hospital for a few days waiting for the surgery to be scheduled.
I thought that since I am the way I am, my son should come down and take care of me with peace of mind.
I don't ask him how rich he is, just think that he can fetch medicine for me, bring me food, and help me go to the toilet.
However, when everything was ready and I was lying in the hospital bed, my son looked at his watch and said, "I still have some things to do, and I need to leave first." ”
I was surprised and said, "So you don't care about me?" So what should I do when I eat? ”
When I needed my son's company, he didn't care about me. When I was alone in my hospital bed, he only made empty promises to give me takeout, and when I went to the toilet, I relied on crutches. After he left in a hurry, I sat alone in the silent hospital room, gloomy.
The other patients around me also heard my son's conversation with me, which made me feel embarrassed and embarrassed. The loss of my son reminds me of the past, dating back to two years ago, when he asked me to sell my house to support his business, I stood firm not to sell.
The son was very angry because of this, and he rarely came home for two years, and ** became estranged. I thought that my father would take care of my son when he was hospitalized, but the reality surprised me. In order to understand my son's attitude, I questioned him, but I only got a conclusive reason from him, accusing me of not agreeing to sell the house to support him.
This left me speechless because I refused to sell my house not out of unsupport, but out of concern for my future life. I know that my son is not doing his job properly, and he does not dare to liquidate his property easily, so as not to have nowhere to live in the future. His resentment was stuck in the past, and he forgot the preciousness of family affection.
In a moment of discouragement, I suddenly remembered my own nephew, someone close to me. Despite his poor life, he has always been filial to me. He often came to visit me on holidays, and although the gifts were not extravagant, he always felt that he cared about me.
Compared to my son, I even feel that my nephew is closer to me. Maybe in the future, he will become a family member I can rely on even more.
This time, I was actually a little embarrassed to tell my nephew about my hospitalization, and I simply mentioned it in **.
However, my nephew did not hesitate to learn about my hospitalization location and rushed to the scene.
The worry and sadness on my nephew's face after learning that I had broken my leg contrasted sharply with my son's calmness.
After learning more about the situation, the nephew left for a while to call his niece-in-law.
When he came back, he told me, "Uncle, I'll take care of you during this time." Regarding the problem of eating, Tang Yan said that she would be responsible for cooking for you at home and bringing the soup over. Don't eat outside meals, it's too greasy. ”
I was deeply touched by my nephew's words, but I still felt that something was wrong and I was worried that it would affect his work. I tried to excuse myself, but my nephew said firmly: "Uncle, work is not important, I don't care about this half month's income, you can rest assured." ”
Although I still hesitated, I finally accepted his kindness.
For the next two days, my nephew stayed by my side, and I spent most of my time watching TV while he focused on his phone.
Any questions were handled by my nephew and I felt very relieved.
However, to my surprise, when my son learned that his nephew had come to take care of me, he seemed very panicked.
*, my son asked me, "Is Ah Jian here to take care of you?" ”
I replied in the affirmative.
The son immediately rushed to the hospital and tried to persuade his nephew to leave. He took it for granted that it was his duty to take care of his father.
Eventually, my nephew went back, and my son stayed with me.
I began to wonder if my son wasn't nervous at all when my nephew wasn't there; But as soon as my nephew came to take care of me, my son became very panicked and couldn't wait to come over.
The reason for this is really puzzling.