Hello, I'm slow.
As a girl, there are many difficulties in how to balance work and life, and how to maintain your unique style without being maverick.
There are many difficulties and challenges, and some girls will think about retreating, relying on, or barely living their lives in the face of these difficulties.
But actually,Every girl has her own unlimited potential and strength.
You look at those girls who live beautifully, they are not without difficulties, but they solve difficulties when they encounter difficulties, complete adjustments when they encounter challenges, live as they want to be, and live their own lives.
We are the same, especially ordinary girls, should find things that are worth sticking to, and then go deeper, specialize, and become a better version of ourselves.
01 Accept yourself and love yourself
Every girl must first learn to accept herself, accept her ordinariness, accept her imperfections, don't give up on herself, don't feel sorry for herself.
Accepting oneself is the beginning of everyone's love for themselves.
There is no such thing as perfection and no perfect person.
Instead of staring at the light of others and complaining about yourself, it is better to see yourself and work hard to make yourself radiant.
02 Stay independent and rely on yourself
Many times, girls will be labeled as "dependent", girls don't have to rely on themselves, rely on their husbands, rely on their families, why should girls live so tired? Bullshit!
Girls should not have a heart that is attached to others, but should remain independent and rely on themselves.
The backing mountains will fall, and the water will stay, as long as you can truly become your own backer.
Only when you are independent can you truly live the life you want, and you can better support your family.
03 Adhere to self-discipline and result-oriented
Nothing is easy to do, and no one can easily live the life they want.
The only thing that depends on it is the result of continuous persistence and continuous efforts 365 days a year.
I like the saying: if you don't spend time creating the life you want, you'll definitely spend more time coping with the life you don't want.
Whatever tree is planted, it will naturally bear fruit.
Insist on waking up early, exercising, reading, and writing every day, and you will definitely gain a better version of yourself.
How self-disciplined you are, how free you are.
04 Insist on reading and writing, and enrich yourself with knowledge
Reading and writing are really the most cost-effective ways to improve yourself, and there is no one.
In the book, you can learn the opinions of others, open your own mind, improve your own cognition, and enrich your own mind.
Keep reading and keeping records every day, and you will be able to become a better version of yourself over time.
05 Keep exercising and take care of your body
A few days ago, a friend told me that during the time when I insisted on running, my mental state was completely different.
I think so. Before I injured my knee, I kept running, enjoying the feeling of sweating profusely, and even more so enjoying the exhilaration.
After the knee injury, because of sedentary lifestyle, or lying flat, the body is obviously not as good as before.
Now, every morning I keep walking on the treadmill, and although I can't run, it's better to move than to lie down.
06 Positive and enthusiastic, full of positive energy
What kind of people are most popular?
Gao Zan replied: People who are full of positive energy.
Yes, no matter what kind of difficulties a positive person faces, he can maintain a good mood and face them positively, which also makes the people around him more powerful.
From today on, learn to be a warm and sunny girl, not only to make yourself happier, but also to infect the people around you.
I hope that every girl can stick to the above 6 things and become a better version of herself.
You are not alone on this road, slow to stay with you, cheer together, grow together, and be a better version of yourself together.