Appearance is very important, especially before the age of thirty, but time flies, the skin is easy to age, and people's appearance will always change. What can really accompany a person throughout his life is their knowledge, temperament and character. There's a good saying,"There is poetry and books in the belly".。A person with a wealth of knowledge and profound cultivation will naturally exude their temperament. This kind of temperament is not something that can be possessed by external decoration, it comes from inner cultivation and accumulation of knowledge. 
Imagine an intellectually elegant woman who, even though the years have left marks on her face, is still able to show her inner charm through her knowledge, gentleness, kindness and cultivation. This kind of charm cannot be eaten away by time. Her wisdom and inner richness will make her older and more beautiful. If there are poems and books hidden in your heart, the years will never defeat the beauty. What is self-love?Self-love is not selfishnessSelf-love is to read oneself more than oneself is pleasedSelf-love means that no matter if it's raining or windy outside, you will remember to add extra clothes to yourself so that you don't get cold. Self-love is that even on the darkest days, you can light a lamp in your heart and give yourself a little warmth. Self-love, in fact, is to find the true self. When you do that, life is like finding a balance and you can be happy with whomever you are. Because you know, each of us is not perfect, sometimes we are stupid, sometimes we do wrong, but that's okay. Self-love is about accepting these imperfections and not changing yourself for the sake of others. Imagine that every woman is a star, twinkling freely in the night sky. A woman who loves herself doesn't need to borrow anyone's light, you shine yourself. In this way, when you are with others, you are not dragging each other down, but enhancing each other. Self-love is teaching others how to love you. You don't have to rely on others to prove your worth, because you are valuable yourself. This kind of self-love makes you live more authentically and enjoy the bits and pieces of life more. Dong Yuhui once talked about Wang Xiaobo in the live broadcast room:This guy is very interesting, he doesn't have a nice skin, but he has an extremely interesting soul. It is like reminding us that there are many useful people in this world, but truly interesting souls are scarce. Life is not a game, to fight monsters and upgrade, life is an interesting trip. Confucius once asked **, what are your interests, others are ambitious, and once said:
"Those who are in the twilight of spring, the spring clothes are ready, the crown is five or six, and the boy is six or seven, bathing, dancing, and returning. ”Meaning: In late spring and March, put on spring clothes, about five or six adults, six or seven children, take a bath in Yishui, and blow the wind on the dance platform. Singing all the way home. Zeng Hui's ambition is simple and full of interest in life, and Confucius can't help but praise again and again, I am the same as Zeng Dian. We often say that a useful person may not always be popular, but an interesting person can often bring laughter and affection. Interesting people, their presence is like a bright color, bringing something different to the world. In fact, fun is not something unattainable, it is hidden in the daily life of each of us. It could be a witty remark, an unexpected trip, or doing something you've never tried before.
Fun is like that, it is not ostentatious, but it can bring endless fun and surprises to our lives. So, we might as well slow down and look for and create those interesting moments to make life not only useful, but also more interesting. In life, hard work is your confidence, self-confidence is your capital, and smile is your label. When you get through all the bitterness, you will naturally meet all the sweetness. Give yourself a little hope, work hard, and be kind every day. Be optimistic. The rest of your life is expensive, please live the way you want.