On the way to meet you, the sun is warm, the clouds are lovely, and the evening breeze must be sweet. - Ice Heart".
I used to talk about a love that floated in the sky and couldn't touch the ground.
The other person made me feel as if I knew him, but as if I just knew him.
Our communication is limited to painless daily sharing, as if we are just ordinary friends, not even good friends.
Our communication only stayed within his safe zone, and when I took the initiative to mention more in-depth topics such as friends, income, and future plans, he always chose to ignore me indifferently or simply keep silent.
At the time, I didn't know why he did it.
Maybe he's too sensitive, too insecure?
Soon after, we broke up, and he was soon with another girl.
That's when I suddenly came to my senses.
It turned out that he was not sensitive and insecure, but that he didn't like me enough and didn't bother to talk to me so much, for fear of straining his mind.
Maybe I'm just a tool in his emotional transition, and he will not hesitate to abandon me at any time when he doesn't need me.
And if he talked to me about friends, future planning and other topics, maybe his mind would not be able to hide for a long time, so in order not to show his stuffing, he was reluctant to communicate with me in depth.
I tentatively asked him a few times if I could follow him to dinner with his friends.
Every time he said it was inconvenient, saying that the boys' party, the girls didn't go well, even if I went, I couldn't fit in, and then I could only be embarrassed there, bored playing with my mobile phone, he had to take care of me then, it was very troublesome, and he would not be able to play, and he would not be able to play, not having fun.
Although I felt very unwilling at the time, I still chose to believe him and felt that he had a point.
And now I just want to say that he is such a scheming man.
I didn't fit in, and he, as my boyfriend, was supposed to help me fit in.
He should not dislike me for fear of trouble and delay his fun, nor should he use this as an excuse to refuse me to attend their party and prevent me from meeting his friends.
If I had been tougher and had gone to their meetings earlier, perhaps from the look in his brother's eyes and his brother's attitude towards me, I would have known that he didn't love me at all.
If he really loves me, he would love to let everyone around him know.
When he was with me, he didn't post a circle of friends related to me.
And after he was with another girl, he immediately made an official announcement on Moments.
The gap brought about by the contrast makes it difficult for me to believe that he loved me.
In addition to my friend's refusal to contact me, I also couldn't move his mobile phone, and I couldn't take a second look.
Every time he replied to a message, I would lean over and look at it, and he would immediately bounce away and say that I was rude and didn't know how to respect his privacy.
Now that I think about it, I must be afraid that I will see him messaging with that girl, or maybe he is complaining about me with his friends?
Anyway, it's something I can't see.
He never told me about his plans for the future.
I don't know how his career, his life, or he planned with me in mind.
Because he doesn't love it, that's why he doesn't talk about it.
If a guy doesn't let you get in touch with his friends, is too sensitive to you looking at his phone messages, and never mentions his future plans to you, then he probably doesn't love you.
When you meet such a boy, run away in time, the forest is so big, there are always good trees.
Your "likes".It's my biggest motivation!
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