A sign that a family is beginning to go downhill, and if it doesn't wake up, it will be difficult for even the baby to have a good future
He has been away from his hometown for more than ten years, from a poor boy in a small town to a successful person in a big city, he has experienced countless ups and downs and challenges, and has also gained countless honors and wealth. He thought he had forgotten the smell of home, until one day, he received a ** from his mother, saying that his father was seriously ill and wanted to see him for the last time.
He immediately bought a plane ticket and flew back to his hometown. When he walked into the dilapidated hut and saw the familiar wooden bed with the old face lying there, he suddenly felt an indescribable emotion welling up in his heart. He knelt beside the bed, held his father's hand, and tears flowed uncontrollably. He listened to his father's weak voice, said some words of concern to him, and asked about some family things, and he felt as if he had returned to his childhood, to that warm home.
He realized that home is not only a material existence, but also a spiritual sustenance, the root and source of everyone. Home is a place that brings positive energy to people, a force that inspires people to move forward, and a place to become the strongest backing and the warmest support in life. Home is a place where people feel loved and loved, a place where people learn to respect and be respected, and a place where people grow into a person with morality, responsibility and responsibility.
However, not all homes are like this. Some homes are a place that brings negative energy to people, an obstacle that hinders people's growth, and a hidden danger that has become the biggest hidden danger in life, the most ruthless injury. Some homes are a place where people feel hated and hated, a place where people learn to deceive and be deceived, and a place where people degenerate into a person without morality, responsibility, and responsibility.
How does a family get to such a situation? What are the signs that can warn us? In my opinion, there are several aspects:
The family relationship is not harmonious. This is the most obvious sign that a family is going downhill. When there is a lack of communication, a lack of understanding, a lack of trust, a lack of support, a lack of tolerance, and a lack of love between family members, the home becomes a space of indifference, a battlefield of quarrels, and a source of harm. Conflicts and conflicts between family members can bring great psychological pressure to people, affecting people's emotions, health, work, study, and even interpersonal relationships. The estrangement and coldness between family members will make people lose the warmth of family affection, the companionship of friendship, the sweetness of love, loneliness and loneliness will erode people's hearts and make people indifferent and selfish.
The learning atmosphere is not strong. This is an important sign that a family is going downhill. When family members do not value, care, support, encourage, supervise, and participate in learning, the home becomes a space for ignorance, a place for laziness, and a channel for waste. Family members' attitudes towards learning will directly affect children's learning interests, learning habits, learning methods, learning effects, and even learning goals. The family's commitment to learning will directly determine the child's learning resources, learning environment, learning opportunities, learning achievements, and even learning future. A family that does not pay attention to learning will raise a child who does not like to learn, and a child who does not like to study will miss a good life.
Bad family culture. It's a dangerous sign that a family is going downhill. When family members do not respect morality, do not abide by it, do not pass it on, do not promote it, and do not maintain it, the home will become a shameless space, a place of depravity, and a source of corruption. The family's concept of morality will directly shape the child's values, worldview, outlook on life, and even happiness. The family's moral behavior will directly affect the child's morality, conduct, taste, quality, and even brand. A family that does not pay attention to morality will raise a child who does not understand morality, and a child who does not understand morality will suffer a tragic fate.
What should we do in the face of the signs of declining family movements? In my opinion, there are several aspects:
Communicate in a timely manner. This is a necessary condition for a family to avoid going downhill. When family members can communicate frequently, sincerely, effectively, and actively, the home will become a warm space, a harmonious team, and a win-win platform. Communication between family members will enhance mutual understanding, trust, support, tolerance, and love, and will resolve each other's contradictions, conflicts, misunderstandings, resentments, and hurts. Communication between family members will promote each other's emotional, health, work, study, and even interpersonal relationship improvement, and will make family members feel happy, satisfied, proud, and happy.
Enhance understanding. This is an important condition for a family to avoid going downhill. When family members can understand each other, respect and understand, tolerate understanding, appreciate understanding, and appreciate understanding, and be grateful and understanding, home will become a rational space, a tolerant home, and a beautiful world. Understanding between family members will eliminate each other's prejudices, misunderstandings, doubts, dissatisfaction, complaints, and will increase each other's confidence, sense of security, self-esteem, self-confidence, and self-love. The understanding between family members will stimulate each other's potential, creativity, responsibility, responsibility, dedication, and create harmony. This is an essential condition for a family to avoid going downhill. When family members can be in harmony with each other, coordinate harmony, cooperate harmoniously, share harmoniously, and joyfully harmonize, home will become a comfortable space, a happy family, and a peaceful society. Harmony between family members will reduce friction, conflicts, contradictions, disputes, disputes, and will enhance each other's unity, cooperation, mutual assistance, reciprocity, and mutual benefit. Harmony between family members will improve each other's quality of life, living standards, life satisfaction, life happiness, and sense of meaning in life, and will make family members feel comfortable, reassured, assured, and happy.
Set an example. This is a key condition for a family to avoid going downhill. When family members can set an example to each other, learn from each other's examples, follow examples, pass on examples, and create examples, the home will become an orderly space, an excellent family, and a great nation. The role models of family members will influence each other's thoughts, behaviors, habits, character, and style, and will shape each other's image, status, reputation, influence, and value. The example between family members will inspire each other's progress, innovation, transcendence, contribution, struggle, and will make family members proud, admire, worship, and admire.
Correct bad habits. This is a necessary condition for a family to avoid going downhill. When family members can correct each other, criticize and correct, accept, encourage and help each other, the home will become a space for progress, a healthy family, and a civilized society. Corrections between family members will eliminate each other's shortcomings, mistakes, weaknesses, deficiencies, obstacles, and will increase each other's strengths, correctness, strengths, strengths, and opportunities. Correction between family members will improve each other's abilities, qualities, levels, achievements, and achievements, and will make family members feel progressive, grown, changed, and improved.
What should we do in the face of these suggestions for families to avoid going downhill? In my opinion, there are several aspects:
Care not only about your own well-being, but also about the future of future generations. It is a family's responsibility and obligation. When family members are able to work for their own happiness and fight for the future of future generations, the home becomes a space of responsibility, a family of obligations, and a country of hope. The responsibilities and obligations of family members will make each other's happiness and future interconnected, mutually influential, mutually reinforcing, and mutually secure. The responsibilities and obligations between family members will make each other's lives have goals, directions, meanings, values, and quality, and will make family members feel responsible, obliged, responsible, and mission-oriented.
When encountering essential vices that cannot be changed, stay away from them in time and do not forgive weakly. It was the courage and wisdom of a family. When family members are able to identify essential vices that cannot be changed, such as violence, abuse, gambling, drug abuse, **, etc., and can decisively stay away from them and forgive without weakness, the home will become a space of courage, a wise family, and a dignified society. The courage and wisdom of family members will protect each other's safety and interests from being violated, lost, or implicated. The courage and wisdom of family members will allow each other's personality and dignity to be maintained, not to be hurt, not to be insulted, not to be humiliated, and will make family members feel courageous, wise, dignified, and confident.
Summarize the main theme of the article, emphasize the importance and value of home, and end with a touching sentence, such as "Home is our initial starting point and our final destination." ”
Home is our initial starting point and our final destination. Home is our most important asset and our most valuable resource. Home is our strongest backing and our warmest support. Home is our best dream, but also our happiest reality. Home is our greatest responsibility and our highest honor. Home is our deepest love and our truest love. Home is our most beautiful poem and our best song. Home is everything to us and everything we are for. Let us cherish our home, love our home, maintain our home, build our home, and make our home our eternal harbor, eternal paradise, and eternal home.