Seeing that the marriage between my brother and my brother-in-law was simply full of calculation, full of defense, full of suspicion, and full of contempt.
I really don't understand, what is the meaning of such a marriage? Before marriage, my brother was afraid that people would run away, so he wanted to lick the dog to death and lick her back. But when he licked it, he felt that people were raised by him, and he felt that he looked down on others.
He was still afraid that others would take the money and give it to her mother's family. There is defensiveness and suspicion everywhere, that is, there is no honesty, no trust, no respect, and no husband and wife are not in the same mind.
Two extremely naïve people, but they both pretend to be smart.
It is useless for me to advise, two people are simply quarreling and quarreling, which is equivalent to when they first got married, marriage for the sake of marriage is the same.
Obviously, my brother-in-law hopes that marriage will help her escape from her original family. As for my brother, he hopes to get married and marry a wife as soon as possible, for fear that no one will want it, and he is very deeply influenced by my parents. Extremely inferior, extremely licking dogs, the poorer you are, the more you don't want to sue for money to start a career, but you want to find a woman to cheat you.
Now that you've got people, you have to lock them up by giving birth. My father, my mother, and my brother are the three of them, and they mean to force others to have children.
My brother and daughter-in-law were obviously prepared before marriage, but they didn't bring the household registration book and didn't get the certificate. Now the banquet has been over for five days, because of the lack of a license, my brother doesn't believe my brother-in-law, and my brother-in-law doesn't believe my brother, and the two often quarrel. Why should such a trustless marriage be concluded?
I felt pain when I saw it, and I wanted to persuade them from the perspective of a sister's maturity, but in the process of persuasion, I found that both of them were immature, and persuasion was useless. Let's wait for them to develop on their own. The path you choose must be carried by yourself. Anyway, I can't control it, I don't want to take care of it, and my brother always thinks that I want to ruin his marriage. Just like studying when I was a child, my brother will always be dissuaded, and then his grades are not good, and even who is to blame for his bad marriage?
And my brother and daughter-in-law are also very funny, my parents gave a bride price of 120,000, and she made her own opinion, so she had to reduce the bride price to 880 thousand. Because of this incident, I offended my mother-in-law, and I had to marry my brother, but I didn't dare to get the certificate generously when I got married, and I had to leave the household registration book in Zhejiang, saying that I forgot the household registration book. Who believes? Obviously, I am not worried that my brother is unwilling to get a certificate with my brother. On the one hand, I guard against my brother, and on the other hand, I offend my mother to death, I don't know what she wants to do with this girl? And this girl has been bullied by patriarchal thinking since she was a child, and her mother looks down on this girl.
Toxic people are all together, one is afraid that no one wants him, and the other desperately wants to escape from the original family with the help of marriage. Two people who don't want to make progress and don't want to be strong, leaning together to keep each other warm, and they are suspicious of each other, I am not optimistic about this kind of marriage from the beginning, although I am not qualified to say anything, but I really think that such a marriage will not have a good result.