You must know that Wu Jing and Xie Nan are a model couple in the entertainment industry.
Wu Jing is even called a "spoiled wife" and a "good man" by the majority of netizens.
A description of Wu Jing in the entertainment news a few years ago.
However, after recent archaeology by netizens, it was found that in the third season of the reality show "Happiness Trio" in 2020, the clip of Wu Jing and Xie Nan quarreling made netizens shout: Wu Jing's "favorite wife" personality collapsed.
Some netizens called on Xie Nan to "divorce to save his life".
From "spoiling his wife" to being suspected of domestic violence, what did Wu Jing do?
Let Shu Yi take you to see this controversial clip in "Happiness Trio".
The reason was that Wu Jing once made noodles and ate them by himself, without asking Xie Nan to dine together.
Wu Jing is eating noodles.
Xie Nan saw Wu Jing eating by himself.
Xie Nan was stunned: Why don't you ask me to eat noodles together? Then, Xie Nan walked to the kitchen and sulked alone, but Wu Jing didn't notice it.
After a while, Wu Jingcai asked, "Do you want to taste it?" ”
Xie Nan responded angrily: "I definitely want to eat." ”
Wu Jing noticed that Xie Nan's tone was wrong, and also said:
I said do you taste it? I didn't say you don't eat it. ”
The contradiction broke out, and Xie Nan said, "You should call me when you burn it, and say that your daughter-in-law will eat it together." ”
Wu Jing said, "You are picking on me and not calling you", "You are complaining about me", his temper rose and his anger flared up.
For another example, at the date dinner that day, Xie Nan asked to "have a good chat with Wu Jing for a while", and Wu Jing suppressed Xie Nan with the question of "tone".
Then you say, "We can't."
this modal word".
as a director".
is very sensitive to this word".
Therefore, the conversation between the two was not pleasant.
There are many similar clips of the conflict between the two.
As a result, the character of "favorite wife" collapsed, and the "Wu Jing-style man" became the target of everyone's shouting.
You must know that a few years ago, "spoiling a wife" was the most popular operation for male stars, and men could win the hearts of thousands of girls with the word "pampering".
At the same time, Wu Jing, as an actor, often presents the image of a tough guy with strong skills and strong body on the screen.
The character of "Favorite Wife" has formed a contrast of "tough guy tenderness" and won the love of more audiences.
But the character of "spoiled wife" is inherently dangerous.
Because the word "pet" implies the inequality of both sides of the relationship.
Pampering, pets, pets, inviting pets......
These words all come from the relationship between the owner and the pet, the emperor and the concubine, and so on.
The "favor" of the superior for the inferior is more of a possessive meaning and regards the inferior as an accessory.
As a subordinate, he has no qualifications to talk to each other on an equal footing, has no right to speak, and cannot influence the direction of major events.
Nowadays, people's disgust with the character of "favorite wife" is closely related to the awakening of women's consciousness.
It is indeed a good thing that the situation of women in marriage is seen, because the "Wu Jing Xie Nan style marriage" is indeed a portrayal of many traditional Chinese marriages.
But we have to look at it objectively, why does such a marriage always exist?
How do we deal with the unequal situation of both parties in an intimate relationship?
In fact, the bell must be tied to the bell, let us go back to the situation of Wu Jing and Xie Nan to find out the problems of the two.
In the 2015 husband and wife competition show "Let's Go Love", Wu Jing and Xie Nan had a quarrel because Xie Nan had been directing while Wu Jing was cooking.
Xie Nan was aggrieved and cried, and he had to deliberately control his emotions.
You can't cry, because Mr. Wu hates women crying the most. ”
When there was a dispute or contradiction, Wu Jing Xie Nan suppressed his emotions for the first time.
As Xie Nan said, the two "have a gap" in their expression.
In intimate relationships, "expression" is an important way for both parties to communicate their emotions.
Love is an active ability. Part of the encyclopedia's explanation of "intimacy".
Wu Jing is not a man who will not be considerate of his wife.
Still in "Happiness Trio", Xie Nan was moved to tears when he saw another young couple's singing interaction in the show.
After Wu Jing saw Xie Nan crying, his first reaction was to check himself: Is it because I can't meet your expectations, so you are crying?
Do you think they're good, isn't that hope, a desire? ”
However, this rhetorical tone is like pointing the finger at the other party.
But then Wu Jing confessed:
You cry for no reason, I'll be nervous".
In fact, both parties are people who pay attention to each other's emotions, but there are always some inappropriate ways to deal with conflicts.
As individuals in a marriage, the husband and wife should maintain respect and tolerance for each other's feelings.
Because "respect" is not only the way the emotional parties get along, but also the most basic politeness in interpersonal interactions.