Everyone experiences various challenges and pains in our lives, but not all of them need to be confided in. The "broken window effect" in criminology provides us with a profound revelation: an unrepaired broken window can inspire more vandalism, which ultimately leads to the deterioration of the entire environment. The same theory applies to the emotional expression of our personal lives, where your pain is like that broken window, and once you show it to the outside world indiscriminately, it can lead to more psychological harm and misunderstanding.
Showing pain may make a person feel released and empathetic to some extent, however, excessive outpouring can become a burden, making people feel more isolated and helpless. As Confucius said, "Be quick to do and be cautious in words." "This is not only a guide to actions and words, but also a wise advice on how to deal with personal pain. We should focus more on action solutions rather than talking endlessly about our own pain.
Controlling one's words and not revealing one's weaknesses and pain at will is a mature attitude towards life. This does not mean that we have to suppress our emotions, but we have to learn to be more careful about who and when to confide in them. Find those who can really give us support and help, rather than spreading the pain to everyone.
In the process, we not only protect ourselves from greater harm, but also create a more stable and positive inner environment for ourselves. In this way, we can face life's challenges with greater resilience and guard our inner world with wisdom and courage.
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