When a man is completely disappointed in a relationship, his behavior and attitude change significantly. These changes, silent but shocking, are a direct reflection of the extreme disappointment in his heart. Here are the three most common changes, and even if only one of them appears, it is enough to show that he has become disheartened with the relationship.
The first change: unconditional letting go. Once, he was full of concern and jealousy for your every move. You think his concern is bondage and his jealousy is machismo. Nowadays, he no longer interferes with your freedom, and he no longer has an opinion on who you go to, who you are with, and what you wear. Your joys, sorrows and sorrows are no longer the waves in his heart, and he no longer asks about your thoughts, as if the deep affection between you has been cut off by a paper barrier.
The second change: silence and alienation. In the past, His words were the bond of your relationship, and His care was a part of your life. However, when he began to feel tired and belittled, he chose to remain silent. Now, even if you try to provoke or get his attention, he just remains indifferent and communicates with you politely and distancingly, as if you are only superficial friends and can no longer touch his heartstrings. He once devoted himself to this relationship with enthusiasm, but in the end he chose to retreat because he was not valued, keeping his emotions and no longer actively seeking your approval.
The third change: dedicate yourself to your career and personal growth. He no longer asks about your daily life, and he no longer takes time out of his busy schedule to accompany you. He puts all of his time and energy into work and personal improvement, which seems to be his ultimate letting go of you. You may feel like he's finally stopped pestering, but in reality, it's a testament to his utter disappointment with you. He understands that no amount of unreciprocated love is in vain in this relationship, and he would rather choose self-love than continue to expend his emotions and energy in a hopeless relationship.
The truth behind these changes is that it's not that he doesn't love you anymore, but that his love has been replaced by uprooted disappointment. All he once longed for was a little response and warmth, but successive disappointments made him decide to let go. Everyone who has this story should reflect on it, cherish the feelings of the people around them, and don't wait until they lose it to regret their mistakes.
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