Love brain is actually a kind of love first thinking mode, a person's "love brain" indicates that his emotional needs are relatively large, a love will put all his energy and mind on love and lovers, blindly think that the other party is good anywhere.
It stands to reason that the love brain should be very warm up in love, but unfortunately the love brain appears in a woman and does not get good results. Maybe it's because men are relatively more rational and don't easily be dominated by emotions. And women are more delicate, empathetic, and more affected by emotions. So if the man is in love, then the relationship will be more stable, and the love between the two will be more hot. It is said that "the love brain is a man's best dowry", and it is because of this.
It's actually very simple to make a man a love brain:
Give positive feedback.
That is, self-interested praise. It's a bit like training a pet, reinforcing his behavior by giving positive feedback (compliments, rewards, etc.), while also affirming his efforts. Praise not only for himself, but for what he has done for you, and for what he has done.
Create emotional resonance.
Establish a concept for him in getting along: it is us who face problems together, not problems between us. Make him aware and always feel that you are in one camp. For example, when two people reach the stage of meeting their parents, when they find that both parents or one parent are not very concerned about marriage or each other, you can say to him: "Baby, is it your parents My parents have any concerns about the two of us, let's think of a way." In short, it is to make him feel that you are one, that it is you vs the problem, not that there is a problem between you.
Give him the details. Whether it's a grinning man or a delicate man, the details will always move him. Occasional good care, amusing him when he's unhappy, caring about his emotions and life, and constantly showing him love ......Let him feel your care and love, but don't care too much about the details of his life, what is cold to add clothes, supervise eating, supervise sleeping, we are in love, not to be a mother. You can have more sense of ritual to make him feel valued, such as anniversaries, gifts, etc., even the most ordinary chats can also have a sense of ritual, with private chat software, you can create a unique chat scene between you and will not be seen by outsiders.
Emotional straight ball, no detours.
When expressing your emotions and needs, be direct and clear, and don't beat around the bush or be subtle and tactful. This will not only make it easy for the other party to misunderstand you, but also increase unnecessary communication costs. Therefore, in order for a man to become a love brain, you need to learn to be emotionally straight and express your thoughts and needs directly.
Finally, the most important thing is to be sober. For women, a proper love brain helps to enhance each other's feelings, but an excessive love brain will only hurt themselves.