People who have experienced repression in the process of growing up often have a challenging and reflective path to parenting as they enter a new stage of their parents' lives. In the scars and regrets of their childhood, they are looking for ways to be more understanding, tolerant and supportive of their children.
The pressure, accusations and denials from the outside world make them aware of the impact of inappropriate parenting on children's personality formation and mental health. Therefore, when they become parents and face their children, their hearts are filled with determination not to let history repeat itself, so that the next generation can grow up healthy in an environment of respect and understanding.
They understand that every child is unique, with the right and potential to think for themselves. They no longer easily say "you can't do it" to their children, but choose to use words of encouragement to stimulate children's self-confidence, so that children can find self-worth in trying and exploring. "You can do it, let's try it together. Such affirmation and companionship will become the most solid backing for children on the road of life.
They place greater emphasis on emotional education, understanding that every child has the right to express emotions, whether joy, sadness, or anger. They are willing to listen to their children and teach them to handle and express their emotions correctly rather than suppressing or ignoring them. Because they deeply understand that a child who can accept and understand his emotions can better adapt to society and form a healthy psychological defense mechanism.
At the same time, they are also trying to move away from the traditional authoritative family education model and move towards an equal and open family atmosphere. They involve children in family decision-making and respect their opinions and choices, thereby fostering independence and responsibility.
These people, as a new generation of parents who have come out of the crackdown, are learning from their own experiences and carefully shaping a new concept and practice of parenting. They replace past criticism and harshness with understanding and tolerance, and coldness and indifference with encouragement and support, and are committed to creating a stress-free environment where children can thrive in love and freedom and realize their true selves.
The change shown by them is not only a sublimation of personal growth, but also a revolution in the concept of family education. They are proving with their own actions that even if they have been shrouded in the haze of life, they can break out of the cocoon and become a butterfly, incarnate the sun shining on the path of children's growth, and write their own unique and powerful parenting chapter.