Nowadays, due to the increasingly fierce competition, children are facing more and more learning pressure and parents are waiting more and more, and there are more and more cases of boredom in school. Learning is undoubtedly an important path for children to have a bright future, and the impact on children's future is extremely far-reaching. Relying solely on the child's own strength, it is often difficult to completely rebel against the mood of school.
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What happened to the children who were tired of school?
1. Poor interpersonal relationships.
It is very common in schools for children who do not do well in school to be discriminated against by their classmates, and it is very common for teachers to label children with poor academic performance and arrange their seats together. From then on, it is easier for children to give up on themselves and simply mingle with their peers who share their own experiences. Due to revenge, they will show rebelliousness, pranks, bullying weak classmates and other behaviors, which will seriously affect their normal interpersonal communication.
2. Damage to pride and self-esteem.
Children who are bored with school generally do not want to study hard, but lack of pride in learning, and poor academic performance makes them lose confidence even more. Severe people will drop out of school as a result, but school boredom affects these children far more than that. Setbacks in learning can cause serious mental shadows. As adults, these children often lack pride, and are frustrated in love and relationships.
3. Addicted to the Internet.
Children who are tired of learning simply escape from reality through the online world, and they cannot get the sense of accomplishment they want in learning, so they will seek it from the Internet, and overnight they will develop the problem of addiction to mobile phones, computers, and the Internet.
4. Poor academic performance, forming a vicious circle.
Children who are seriously bored with school, lack the hobby of learning, but are forced by the pressure of their parents and have to stick to the classroom, of course, their academic performance is not good, and they will be blamed by teachers and parents, showing significant anxiety and depression, and they will become more and more bored with learning.
Reasons why children are tired of school:
1. Some children who can lie down after coming home from school absolutely do not sit, do not do the things they remember without doing them, and even their homework can be delayed, which is related to the lack of children's internal drive. Many parents take care of everything from an early age and do not teach their children to be independent, causing their children to transfer these living habits to studying. It also makes children refuse to go to school because their homework is not finished on time, and they are afraid of being reprimanded by teachers, and they always want to stay at home and play.
2. If the campus is an unsafe environment for children, the thought of going to school will cause the child to be anxious, nervous, depressed, depressed and other bad moods, and then also consider whether the child has encountered bullying, being overhanded or other stressful things on campus, these negative things will greatly lead to the child's resistance to school.
3. Family reasons, such as changes in family relationships, divorce of parents, loss of relatives and other things have caused a serious impact on children, so that children lose motivation for life, learning and even life, and children may escape reality by not going to school.