Thinking late at night, the soul seems to gradually realize the true meaning of life with the precipitation of the years. In the world, the encounter of friends is nothing more than to use each other, and the blending of emotions is always inseparable from the bond of interests, which may be an extension of the law of survival. The ups and downs of life, the more you live transparently, the more you can understand the tacit understanding between friends and the deep meaning of communication.
1. I'm tired of being sophisticated
After retirement, I have understood the hardships of human feelings. For most of his life, he chased power and prosperity, and was physically and mentally exhausted. It is not a lack of friendship, but a life of purity, a life that is no longer disturbed by the world. Retirement is not just a departure from the workplace, but also a kind of spiritual return and retreat.
Netizen Message: After six years of retirement, I put down my busy work and became estranged from my past friends. I choose to devote more time to my family, accompany my wife, and savor the warmth of family together. Compared to the previous call for friends, I don't know how many times stronger, at least I think it is more meaningful and valuable.
Interpersonal hypocrisy is complicated, and we who have been chasing fame and fortune, perhaps the real peace lies in choosing a quiet life. Being able to live a comfortable and meaningful life after retirement is a reward for yourself.
Second, the years are quiet and good home life
When you are young, you go out more to make a living, and when you are old, you live at home for life. Being alone at home not only feels comfortable and fulfilling, but also avoids the hustle and bustle of interpersonal disputes. After old age, I got rid of the pressure of running around to make a living, and I can enjoy peace and quiet at home without worrying about being disturbed by the outside world. The beauty of life lies in the ordinary, and the choice of home life is the beautiful pursuit of ordinary days.
When you are old, being able to have a quiet and comfortable home is the best time to celebrate. Choosing to stay at home and live a quiet and fulfilling life is a kind of careful arrangement for your life.
3. Stay away from the right and wrong in life
In life, a person does not want to make friends, not because he does not have the ability, but because he does not want to be involved in disputes between right and wrong. Life is stormy, although there are many friends, but they are mixed. Therefore, the wisdom of choosing to go alone is not because you can't make friends, but because you don't want to cause trouble. The more friends you have, the more noisy your old age will be, which is a common rule in life.
Choosing to stay away from right and wrong is a kind of protection for one's own wisdom and life. Not all friendships are worth making deep friends, stay away from right and wrong, and create a peaceful living environment for yourself.