Born in 1974 into an ordinary peasant family, Ma Yanli spent a carefree childhood like most rural children. However, Ma Yanli's life path is different.
In 1989, 15-year-old Ma Yanli passed the sports specialty exam and officially became a professional rower. In training and competitions, Ma Yanli honed her tenacious character.
Four years later, a training accident brought her to injury, ending her career.
Ma Yanli originally thought that her life had come to an end, and her future was at a loss. However, it seems that the heavens have other arrangements for her, which brings her an unexpected turnaround. The 1.79-meter-tall lady has since embarked on a new journey in life and has achieved extraordinary achievements.
With a height of 78 meters, Ma Yanli has the excellent physical conditions that a model should have.
In 1995, she participated in the Shanghai International Model Contest and won the championship with her outstanding performance. Since then, a new chapter has opened in her career. Three years later, Ma Yanli founded her own clothing brand and showed her skills in the business field.
At the age of 25, she has already excelled in her career, and her story of her successful transition from athlete to athlete is an inspiration to many young women.
In 2001, Ma Yanli met Lang Kun, director of the CCTV ** Department, at a cocktail party, when Ma Yanli was in the rising period of her career, and Lang Kun's background was more superior.
Lang Kun is 15 years older than Ma Yanli, divorced twice, but still pursues Ma Yanli. Perhaps it was the twists and turns on the emotional road that made Lang Kun know how to cherish Ma Yanli more, he took good care of her, and even worked hard to learn Ma Yanli's hometown dialect - Henan dialect, and finally won Ma Yanli's heart.
After marriage, Ma Yanli is still committed to the operation of clothing brands. In 2003, Lang Kun was promoted to the position of director of the ** department of CCTV. Both have excelled in their respective careers, while also focusing on family life.
In 2003, Ma Yanli's daughter Lang Ma Qinge was born, and their small family suddenly became lively and full of warmth. As a staff member of the TV station, Lang Kun was busy with work all day long, so Ma Yanli took on the responsibility of taking care of her daughter and supporting him in her work, and took her daughter to go abroad to develop business.
However, the good times didn't last long.
In 2007, when Ma Yanli was working overseas, witnesses photographed Lang Kun holding hands with a young dancer, walking together happily. After the release of this **, it attracted a lot of attention.
Ma Yanli only found out at this time that the beam above her head had been chiseled through a big hole by Lang Kun.
In 2007, a netizen posted a group of ** on the Internet, in which Zhonglang Kun and a dancer interlocked their fingers and walked together sweetly. This scene was seen by Ma Yanli.
The dancer's name is Liu Yan, who is 23 years younger than Lang Kun and is in the mood for love.
*As soon as it came out, it was a sensation. The moment Ma Yanli saw the news, she felt that the world was spinning, and her mind was blank. She trembled and called Lang Kun, choked up and asked, "What is your relationship with her?" What's going on here? * Lang Kun on the other end replied in a cold tone: "We are just ordinary friends, don't think about it." ”
Ma Yanli decided to return to China early and confronted Lang Kun face to face. When Ma Yanli saw Lang Kun, he had no remorse and directly said the word breakup. Lang Kun coldly announced: "I'm tired of you, let's divorce." ”
After Ma Yanli listened, tears flowed down her eyes. With tears in her eyes, she begged Lang Kun to give her another chance, but Lang Kun resolutely refused her. As a result, the relationship between the two broke down completely.
For the sake of her daughter, Ma Yanli still decided to maintain a superficial peace with Lang Kun. However, what she couldn't predict was that Lang Kun not only did not have any repentance, but also publicly admitted his relationship with Liu Yan after the divorce, and even won the opportunity for Liu Yan to perform at the opening ceremony of the 2008 Beijing Olympic Games.
Ma Yanli chose to raise her daughter alone, endured humiliation and burden, and began a long life as a single parent.
Since their divorce in 2007, the fate of Ma Yanli and Lang Kun has gradually deviated, and Ma Yanli has devoted herself to her career and the responsibility of raising her daughter, running her own clothing studio independently.
There are constantly celebrities at home and abroad wearing Ma Yanli's well-designed dresses, and her popularity has gradually increased, and she is finally worth more than 100 million yuan.
Lang Kun, on the other hand, continued to support his new love Liu Yan, and before the opening of the 2008 Beijing Olympics, he used his connections to win Liu Yan an eight-minute solo opportunity.
originally wanted to use this to enhance Liu Yan's popularity, but he didn't expect an accident to become a prelude to parting. During the last rehearsal, Liu Yan accidentally fell from a high platform, severely damaged his spine, and will spend the rest of his life in a wheelchair.
After Lang Kun learned the news of Liu Yan's serious injury, he immediately drew a line with her, and there was no intersection again.
Lang Kun abandoned his first wife Wang Xiping and second wife Sinong in the same way, and although he seemed to be successful on the surface, in fact all three relationships ended in failure.
Lang Kun, who is recognized as "CCTV's No. 1 scumbag", has easily empathized and abandoned him many times. Recently, 64-year-old Lang Kun was dying due to serious complications after brain tumor removal. Retribution seems to come quickly.
In the 16 years since Ma Yanli and Lang Kun divorced, she has always adhered to her career and family, and has not been bound by her past married life. This has set an example of sober independence for countless women.
Ma Yanli and Lang Kun's emotional entanglement is different from the former, she chooses to be strong and self-reliant. She put all her heart and soul into raising her daughter and creating a clothing brand. It is precisely because of her efforts that an ordinary woman who came out of the countryside eventually had a successful career and a net worth of more than 100 million.
This kind of tenacity and independence is an inspiration to all women who experience emotional frustration.
In fact, Lang Kun's first two wives, including Ma Yanli, Wang Xiping and Sinong, have also achieved a good life through their own efforts and struggles. Wang Xiping later became the chief director of the Spring Festival Gala of ** TV station and reached the peak of his career; Sinong chose to go abroad for further study, and finally found a world of his own.
No matter how much emotional loss they experience, women have the ability to re-choose their future on their own. Compared with Lang Kun, who was criticized by the society, these three women bravely pursued themselves and are worthy of learning from all women.
After their marriage broke down, they bravely chose to be self-reliant, not letting their past regrets defeat them, and became role models for women.
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