In the second year of marriage, we had our first child, and since then we have chosen to sleep in separate beds. As the older child grew older, he learned to sleep alone, but a second child was added. For seven or eight years, he has maintained a lifestyle of separate beds. Later, we bought a new house and a big bed, but found that it was not comfortable to sleep together, so we drove him to another room. He has lived many days in this life, but he has always seemed a little aggrieved.
Recently, we decided to try to sleep together again, only to realize that spending the night together can really strengthen our relationship. Perhaps, sharing the bed together is what we have always needed, and the relationship has become more intimate because of this.
Today's topic: What is it like for a couple to live apart for a long time?
Let's see what netizens are saying:
Netizen:In that land where there is work, there is a lack of a warm home; And in that place where there is a home, there is no way to make a living. A foreign land cannot hold my soul, but a homeland cannot hold my body. The place that was called home, there was no chance for me to make a living; And finding a place to support my family can't really be my home. So, I began a wandering life, and the distance became the sustenance of my soul, and my thoughts were born because of this. In the end, I just wish every wanderer who embarks on this journey all the well, peace and happiness. May those brothers and friends who are struggling outside the country have a smoother year every year than the year before. May those children who are not accompanied by their fathers grow up healthy and safe.
Netizen:My husband is always on the go. We had an agreement to get together once a month. However, since last year, I will have to wait alone for 11 years, no matter how many difficulties I encounter. I swear that I will hold on until the day we are reunited.