Recently, I saw a news, Xiaole (pseudonym), who lives in Wuxi, is only 9 years old this year, one day when she was playing a game on an online game app, she received an application from a strange friend on the game platform, Xiaole passed directly, the other party said that his name was Li Yong, and began to play games with Xiaole to do tasks.
The two played the game very happily at first, until the dead of night, when the ill-intentioned Li Yong lured Xiaole to take pictures of his private parts for his **, and threatened to use someone else's *** to impersonate Xiaole if he did not meet his requirements. Xiaole, who had nothing to do, was afraid, so he sent his private parts ** to Li Yong through the game platform. Until one day, Xiaole's mother inadvertently saw the privacy ** on Xiaole's mobile phone**, and after asking the reason**, she immediately went to the public security to report the case.
When Li Yong was arrested and brought into the case, Li Yong confessed that when he saw the victim's first private parts**, he had repeatedly asked the victim for his private parts ** when he was judged to be a minor girl based on his level of development. In the end, the court sentenced Li Yong to 1 year and 6 months in prison for the crime of ** children.
I believe that no matter who sees this news, they will feel very angry and heartbroken, this news belongs to a typical "air" "space" is a new form of juvenile crime, different from the traditional way of physical contact, with stronger concealment and more harmful characteristics. It is also because it is not easy to **, in the corners where we can't see, there are still a lot of children who are "separated from the air**".
Hell is empty, and demons are on earth. There are too many dark sides in society, and as parents we can't stop them all, but it's not like we can't do anything. We must teach children to protect themselves in advance, and the most basic ** to form this "self-protection" is "sex education".
Children's sex education, the sooner the better!
Many parents think that it is not too late to wait until their children are adults to carry out sex education, but you must know that those "demons" do not only target adults.
According to the "2019 Child Case Statistics and Child Prevention Education Survey Report", there were 301 publicly reported cases of children (under 18 years old) in 2019, of which the youngest victim was only 4 years old.
So, the earlier you educate your child about sex, the less likely your child is to be violated.
So how exactly should we do "sex education" for children?
Parents who can let go can complete good sex education.
First of all, it should be clear that in order to do a good job in children's sex education, parents must first "let go", and on this basis, we can divide different age groups to complete "sex education".
When the child is 2-3 years old, when bathing the child, parents can try to introduce the names of body parts to the child with simple and easy-to-understand vocabulary, and at the same time emphasize to the child when introducing the private parts:
Do not allow anyone, especially the opposite sex, to look at or touch your private parts
Make somebody's blood boil! 9-year-old girl was threatened to take intimate photos many times**! Sex education for children.
In addition, at this age, parents can use the ** anatomical chart to help their children simply understand the distinction between gender, so that children know how "male" and "female" are physiologically different.
From the age of 3, children will have the question "I am from **". Because many parents don't know how to answer such questions and feel "ashamed", they often use these reasons to prevaricate their children
You were picked up from the trash can".
You were sent by me for phone bills".
You were pulled out when I went to the toilet".
Answers such as these can not only create false perceptions in children, but can even cause fear in children. In the face of this kind of problem, my suggestion is to explain the process of "creating a man" to the child in a way. For example, there is an episode of the Indian children's sex education short drama "Sex Chat with Pappu & Papa 2016" that is very worthy of reference when explaining "making people": the male organ is compared to a USB data cable, and the female organ is a USB interface.
In addition to this method of introduction, parents can also explain the process of "creating a human" through other metaphors or picture books, as long as the child can understand it correctly, then it is a good sex education.
Older children will start school, and at this stage children will be exposed to a lot of strangers, and sex education at this time should focus on letting children know how to interact with strangers alone.
The first thing to do is for children to learn to distinguish between dangerous strangers and safe strangers.
Safe strangers refer to police uncles, firefighters, military uncles, doctors in hospitals**, security guards in shopping malls and supermarkets, etc., in the face of these strangers, if you encounter difficulties, you can seek their help.
And those dangerous strangers tend to have some "strange behavior" or ask you to do "strange things", such as:
No matter how happy you are, I always kiss you with my mouth.
Let you see his private parts.
Carry you to another place under the pretext of checking your health.
Someone who asks you to obey or touch your private parts.
It is necessary to clearly tell the child that these strangers are what you need to guard against, that they are likely to be dangerous and bad, and that if you meet them, you should quickly stay away from them and seek help from the nearest supermarket, store, police station, bank, etc.
Of course, it is also necessary to emphasize to the child that it is not necessarily safe to know each other. According to the "Girl Protection" 2019 **Child Case Statistics and Child Prevention ** Education Survey Report", among all cases of children, 70Forty-three percent of the crimes were committed by acquaintances, including neighbors, teachers and even relatives. Therefore, it is necessary to emphasize to the child that anyone who asks you to obey or touch your private parts is an unsafe person, and you should refuse it as soon as possible and tell your parents about it.
Parents can deepen their children's impression through role-playing and scenario simulation.
Make somebody's blood boil! 9-year-old girl was threatened to take intimate photos many times**! Sex education for children.
When the child reaches the age of 10, he or she begins to experience the physiological phenomenon of menstruation. When a child is faced with menstrual sperm loss for the first time, he may feel scared, but what parents should do is to calmly explain to their children that this is a normal physiological phenomenon, that everyone will occur, and that this phenomenon is healthy, and that they should also correctly tell their children how to clean their private parts.
Of course, the best thing is to popularize science knowledge with the child in advance before the child's menarche is coming, and the most important thing is not to hide it, and you should discuss these physiological phenomena with the child calmly. In this way, even if menstrual sperm comes suddenly, the child will not panic.
How to avoid "air**".
With the continuous development of the Internet, many ill-intentioned people are targeting children in front of the screen. They use non-violent means such as coaxing and inducement to implement "estrangement" on simple children
In addition to the example given at the beginning of the article, there are many more terrible cases of "air clearance" in reality.
For example, in 2018, Liang, a staff member who claimed to be a child star recruitment company, added a lot of children's QQ or WeChat, and then Liang asked these girls to cooperate with some performance actions on the grounds of "selecting the most suitable child stars", and also underwent a "physical examination", these so-called "physical examinations" include **pants, touching breasts, inserting ** with fingers or toothbrushes, etc., so that the children's physical and mental injuries are seriously harmed. Although Liang was finally sentenced to a heavy fine of 9 years, this could not make up for the trauma suffered by the children.
In order to protect children's safety to the greatest extent, parents should help their children develop good online habits, do not use social software that is not suitable for minors, and tell children that they should not let their private parts be seen by people on the Internet, no matter what reason they use, so as to enhance their children's awareness of self-protection. At the same time, parents should also cultivate an intimate relationship with their children and create a harmonious atmosphere in the family, only in this way will children be more willing to take the initiative to communicate when they encounter problems, and parents can detect and stop problems earlier.
China's Action Plan Against Human Trafficking (2021-2030), released on April 28, 2021, states that the State Council requires punishment for crimes such as using the Internet to trap children**. We hope that under the protection of justice and parents, the "space**" can completely disappear, so that children can use the Internet with peace of mind and safety.
Write at the end. "Fang Siqi's First Love Paradise", there is a paragraph in it that reads:
Siqi said to her mother in a bread-smeared cream tone
Our family seems to have all kinds of education, but there is no sex education
Mom looked at her in surprise and replied:
What sex education? Sex education is for those who need sex. Isn't that what education is all about? 】
Siqi understood for a moment that in this story, the parents would be forever absent, they were absent from school, but they thought that school had not yet started.
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