The year old is coming to an end, and the demons and monsters, the ghosts, and the ghosts and ghosts, finally didn't stay for the New Year.
On January 31, two vicious ** cases that lasted several years and caused a sensation across the country. The dust settled. Wu Xie Yu, the rebel son of Fuzhou's mother-killing rebel, Zhang Bo and Ye Chengchen, the demon of Chongqing eating children, are punished in the Ming Dynasty!
Reviewed by the Supreme People's Court:
Wu Xie Yu "Murder, fraud, and the crime of buying and selling identity documents, the subjective malice is deep, and there is no sincerity of repentance, and it should be punished according to law!" ”
Wu Xie Yu, you can go underground to apologize to your mother!
Before the execution, the Fuzhou Intermediate People's Court informed Wu Xie Yu that he could apply to meet with his relatives, but Wu Xie Yu did not apply.
The grace of parents, Haotian is reckless! killed his loving mother who loved him deeply, and Wu Xie Yu didn't have the face to meet any of his closest relatives, right?
Wu Xieyu, who has no sincerity of repentance, has gone from a god of Peking University to a demon of killing his mother, what kind of mental journey has he experienced, and how has he transformed step by step?
Let's start with Wu Xieyu's parents.
Wu Xieyu's father, Wu Zhijian, and mother, Xie Tianqin, were both born in 1967. The difference is that Xie Tianqin was born in a scholarly family, and Xie's father was a university teacher, but he was branded as a rightist in that special era and was blinded.
As the eldest daughter of this family, Xie Tianqin seems to have become the direct bearer of the family's fate. When she was a teenager, she lived in fear. This makes her gradually withdrawn, contracted, and introverted, and she doesn't like to make friends or deal with people.
There is a very representative case: after the end of the turbulent years, Xie's father was rehabilitated, and a large amount of back wages were paid according to the regulations. At that time, Xie's father and mother were blind and had difficulty walking. Receiving the money requires a series of procedures, and this task falls on the eldest daughter, Xie Tianqin.
However, Xie Tianqin actually gave up this right because he "doesn't like to deal with people"!
The cold and withdrawn character can be seen!
Many years later, Xie Tianqin was killed by his parents and disappeared for half a year without anyone paying attention to and discovering it, which was also due to this character weakness.
The turmoil of juvenile life also made Xie Tianqin have a deep inferiority complex in his heart, but excessive inferiority complex was reflected in words and deeds, but it became excessive self-esteem and strength. Most of this strength is reflected in later family life.
And Wu Xie Yu's father, Wu Zhijian, is completely different from Xie Tianqin in terms of personality and background.
Wu Zhijian was born in a farmer, his family was poor, but his family affection was very strong, in the era when he could only afford one person to study, his sister Wu Ahua resolutely gave this opportunity to his younger brother and worked part-time for him to study.
Under the care of his mother and sister, Wu Zhijian has a generous and gentle personality, and attaches great importance to sibling affection.
If there is anything in common between Wu Zhijian and Xie Tianqin, it is that they both believe in one thing: reading changes fate.
When they were young, Wu Zhijian and Xie Tianqin were both in the quagmire, so they studied hard, and finally Wu Zhijian was admitted to Fuzhou University and was assigned to a state-owned enterprise after graduation. Xie Tianqin was admitted to Suzhou Railway Normal College, and after graduation, he was assigned to Fujian Nanping Railway Middle School.
Xie Tianqin, who is cold by nature, originally didn't want to get married, but as he got older, Xie's father forced him on a hunger strike, and only then did he meet Wu Zhijian under the introduction of others.
Putting family aside, the two of them have equal soft power, and it didn't take long for them to get married.
In the eyes of her in-laws, Xie Tianqin loves to be clean, clear, and even a little unkind. When Wu Zhijian was seriously ill, his sister Wu Ahua came to take care of her younger brother, but Xie Tianqin refused to let her live at home. It was still Mr. Ma upstairs, who was also Xie Tianqin's only friend, who gave a vacant house to Wu Ahua to live in, which solved this problem.
And the young Wu Xie Yu likes to play at his aunt's house. In his eyes, his aunt Ah Hua "has a simple person's enthusiasm for family life, warm and comfortable." ”
Wu Xie Yu was born and grew up. Xie Tianqin also did not let Wu Xie Yu and Wu Ahua's son play, because "he did not study well" and "did not let the objects of "playing together", even including her own sister's child, because the child "did not study well and sweared".
However, in terms of getting along with her mother-in-law's family, Xie Tianqin also has something commendable.
Children like Wu Zhijian from poor families will inevitably have to feed their families after they finish school. A large part of Wu Zhijian's income after working is spent in his extended family, even after marriage.
As for Xie Tianqin, she never stopped her husband from spending money for the big family, she has a high sense of morality and is not stingy financially. This is really different from the average housewife.
Reading changes fate, this is the reality of Xie Tianqin and Wu Zhijian's own lives, and it is also the values that their generation believes in. The importance of children's academic performance has become the belief of this small family.
Therefore, Xie Tianqin was very strict with Wu Xie Yu's studies and life as he grew up.
Over the years, we don't know what kind of life Wu Xie Yu has lived under the "care" of his mother. But a family is really important for the growth of teenagers.
To Xie Tianqin's relief, Wu Xie Yu is very obedient and smart, no, it should be said that he is beyond ordinary people. He has stronger self-control than his peers, loves to read, "doesn't have to worry about adults at all", and is polite and polite in his dealings with people.
In 2009, he was admitted to the best high school in Fuzhou with the first grade in the school, and was admitted to Peking University with excellent results in the college entrance examination.
But at the same time, Wu Xieyu's character flaws are gradually revealed.
Wu Xie Yu has never learned to make friends, nor is he good at getting along with people. Wu Xie Yu, who longs for warmth in his heart, but doesn't know how to communicate emotions naturally, is actually very inferior. "I've always had a very low self-esteem, no ego, no opinions, so I'm always imitating. ”
Xie Tianqin's inferiority complex comes from the experience of the family in a special era, what about Wu Xie Yu? Life is smooth sailing, what does his inferiority complex come from?
In fact, his young mind has been bearing his mother's emotions. Mom always looks unhappy, Wu Xie Yu never dares to ask, he can only guess by himself.
Criminal psychologist Remy once said, "If you don't go out into the sun, you'll be swallowed up by darkness." ”
In the eyes of outsiders, Wu Xie Yu is perfect. But perfection itself is the greatest **, and it is precisely the greatest weakness that a person behaves without weakness.
Wu Xie Yu once said, "I am an exam machine." Whenever he sees his parents happy from the bottom of his heart because of his excellent grades, he will feel that it is just his mission, so he will work harder.
Wu Xie Yu lives completely for the wishes of his parents.
Little by little, he became better, but also little by little he lost himself. Until his father died, his mother couldn't come out, and Wu Xie Yu was completely out of control.
The development of Wu Zhijian's disease has a long process from mild to severe. In order to allow Wu Xie Yu to concentrate on his studies, his mother hid his father's illness from him.
Therefore, when his father died, Wu Xie Yu felt very sudden and very difficult to accept.
And Xie Tianqin, judging from her writings before her death, she was emotionally attached to her husband. One can imagine how hard her husband's death hit her. She retracted further into the world of her own heart, and she became more withdrawn, refusing to associate with everyone.
These two people, obviously with great trauma in their hearts, never communicate directly.
Wu Xie Yu experienced the death of a loved one for the first time in his life, and while he felt sorry for his mother, he "vowed to put all his energy and attention on his mother and do everything I could to give her happiness."
On the other hand, his emotions began to be distorted.
He resented his mother for hiding his father's illness, and he believed that family affection was more important than temporary achievements, but because of his mother's self-assertion, he missed the last time he got along with his father.
This made Wu Xie Yu very angry, and then made him feel that his father's dead mother should also be responsible. Not only the mother, but all relatives are responsible, because they "see death and do not save the father".
Of course, he is not blindly angry with others, he also blames and hates himself, and does not accompany his father well in his last time.
Wu Xie Yu gradually lost his way in such a family background full of unspeakable sadness and distortion. An extremely crazy thought took root in his heart: he often fantasized that he would die, and he also wanted his mother to accompany his father, so that his mother could be completely "liberated".
He wants to destroy everything just to atone for his sins.
July 10, 2015, this is the day that Wu Xie Yu carefully selected for his mother, this day is the first day of summer vacation for his mother, who is a teacher.
On this day, Wu Xie Yu came back from school, and his mother looked at her son who had not seen her son for a long time and seemed to have lost a lot of weight, so she was ready to buy some vegetables to make up for her son, just when Xie Tianqin changed his shoes and was about to go out, Wu Xie Yu held a dumbbell bar and slammed Xie Tianqin's head and face continuously without hesitation, resulting in Xie Tianqin's death.
Wu Xie Yu completely tore off his disguise after killing his mother, exposing his dirtiest side. He used his mother's identity to ask relatives and friends to borrow a total of 1.44 million yuan, on the grounds that "children study abroad".
He used the money he got by fraud to go crazy**, and once he actually spent 4,000 yuan to call 2 young ladies to accompany him.
For a while, Wu Xie Yu also fell in love with sex workers. even knelt down to propose, promising to give more than 100,000 dowries.
Wu Xie Yu changed his previous style of "three good students". Mixed night show, being a male model, being a male waiter, shooting***
Wu Xie Yu, who was excellent in character and learning in the past, has become a selfish and extravagant demon.
In the eyes of his colleagues, Wu Xie Yu is usually quiet and doesn't like to deal with people, but in front of guests, he can speak well and coax the guests to laugh again and again.
In the small room he rented, there were hundreds of grams of pornographic videos in all kinds of *** computers, and sex addiction was his hallucinogens for escaping reality.
Until April 20, 2019, Wu Xieyu, who had escaped for three years after killing his mother, was captured by ** when he took a flight at Chongqing Jiangbei Airport.
For a while, there was an uproar.
Wu Xie Yu disappeared for "three years", no one knows what he is in**. Some speculate that he has fled overseas or committed suicide in the barren mountains and mountains.
The result was quite a surprise to everyone.
Genius on the left, madman on the right. Wu Xie Yu's double-faced life just confirms: the masked angel has torn off his disguise, and he is the most terrible devil.
Why did Wu Xie Yu wipe his mother? After the case, everyone is asking this question.
Wu Xie Yu also reminds me of Chen Liren, a Google engineer who recently killed his wife in the United States, how similar the two of them are! They are all good children in the eyes of the world.
However, why would such an obedient and "perfect" child suddenly change his temperament one day and become a cold-blooded, ruthless murderer with perverse behavior?
In fact, there are traces of everything. As Professor Li Meijin commented:
Wu Xie Yu's near-perfect personality comes at the cost of psychological **, and he actually comes at the cost of suppressing his true self. ”
Wu Xie Yu's biggest demon is himself.
He forced himself to be the most perfect child in the eyes of his parents. He also lost his freedom and lost his flesh-and-blood self.
And the extreme point of repression, the memory of loss erupts. Once it erupts, it is either self-destructive, it is ruined.
Writing this article does not mean to open up charges for Wu Xie Yu, and no reason can exonerate the murderer, let alone the parents who gave birth to us. Wu Xie Yu killed his mother by cruel means, he must die, and he is innocent of death!
I just want to take this opportunity to remind parents all over the world that what is more important to their children than grades is the formation of personality.
Gibran has a well-known poem: Your children are not your children, they are the children born of life's desire for themselves.
We can shelter children's bodies, but we don't need to completely control their souls.
Be as they are, not as you want them to be. Allow him to make mistakes, allow him to have some weird hobbies and ideas.
Only in this way can the child avoid "perfection" and it will be easier to have a sound personality and a thriving soul!
Only with a healthy soul can we be happy from the bottom of our hearts, so as to have a vast life!