"What about the 900,000 yuan in the passbook? Why is there only a piece of five left? You tell me where all the money went? The man angrily questioned his wife.
The sub name is calledDong Jian, 44 years old, has just been diagnosedAdvanced nasopharyngeal carcinomaFortunately, the family still has savings900,000 yuan, when he took the passbook to the bank to withdraw money for treatment, he was dumbfounded,The balance shows that there is only one piece of five leftSubsequently, Dong Jian asked the bank to investigate the monitoring and inquiry, and finally confirmed that it was Dong JianWife Jiang Yulingtaken.
Moreover, Jiang Yuling only takes 40,000 9 every time, as long as it does not exceed 50,000, Dong Jian does not know. The passbook has always been kept at home, and Dong Jian does not know if he does not check it. It wasn't until after Dong Jian got sick this time that Dong Jian found out and asked Jiang Yuling to take money to come out to see a doctor, but Jiang Yuling said: ".The money is goneYour parents are rich, you are their son, isn't it natural for you to pay for treatment? Dong Jian had no choice but to find a mediator to mediate.
However, the events are more complicated than expected, what happened between them and the couple? Why did Jiang Yuling secretly transfer the money away? How did it end?
I also have two children to support, I need money for school and life, I won't take out this money, I want to treat the disease, go to your parents, they have more than 1 million in their hands, it's really not good, you can borrow it, you want to take money from me is not a dream. ”
Facing the reporter's camera, Jiang Yuling was domineering, no matter how Dong Jian persuaded or the mediator persuaded her, Jiang Yuling was always unwilling to take out the money to treat her husband Dong JianIt is said that the 900,000 yuan belongs to the joint property of the husband and wife, and Jiang Yuling has the obligation to take it out to treat Dong Jian's illness, but Jiang Yuling's sentence that she wants to support the children provokes Dong Jian to have nothing to say。WhileThe more than 1 million yuan in the hands of Dong Jian's parents is their pension money, how can it be taken to him for healing?
Dong Jian is terminally ill of cancer, I don't know when the person will be gone, Jiang Yuling is naturally unwilling to spend a lot of money to treat him, and in the end, both people and money are empty, Dong Jian's parents are not willing to pay, this is their pension money, the son has terminal cancer, once the person is gone, they can only rely on themselves, daughter-in-law Jiang Yuling has always had a bad relationship with them, and they can't count on it, and they can only enjoy their old age with money around them.
So, this is an unsolvable contradiction. Under the guidance of reporters, Jiang Yuling told the reason why she was reluctant to take money, and the matter started with their marriage.
Dong Jian's original family background was average, and his studies were not good, but after elementary school, he learned to drive, and he has always beenDriving a busAs a driver, I often leave early and return late. Jiang Yuling was told by Dong Jian's parents that the two had the same family background and the same age at that timeFeelings can only be regarded as living together
At the urging of their parents, the two got married soon after they met, but because they didn't understand the personalities of both parties, they had problems not long after marriage. On the third day after marriage, Jiang Yuling had a conflict with her mother-in-law, the contradiction between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was very inexplicable, maybe the two sides did not like each other, and after a violent quarrel, Jiang Yuling said:When you are old, you don't support your in-laws, and you don't bury when you die
This is naturally hard to hear, even in the countryside in 07, the daughter-in-law who said this was considered to have committed the crime of seven out in ancient times, and she divorced directly, but it is not easy to get married in the countryside, Dong Jian and his parents are uncomfortable, but it is not easy to get married, so I put up with it.
How do you know that Jiang Yuling has intensified, she can't look down on her in-laws, since the quarrel, she has not interacted with each other, she does not allow her in-laws to come to the door, and she does not go to see her in-laws, even if it is the New Year, she is not allowed to do her own confinement. The in-laws wanted to see their grandchildren, so they asked Dong Jian to take them to their grandparents' house.
Jiang Yuling's behavior made the Dong family a laughing stock in the village, and also caused her mother's family and her mother-in-law's family to die and die. Dong Jian was sandwiched in the middle, and even so, a few years after marriage, the two gave birth to two children. Now the husband and wife are really living together for the sake of their children.
However, the development of things is far beyond people's expectations, in fact, because of the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-lawDong Jian's mother has always looked at Jiang Yuling unpleasantly, and has been secretly persuading Dong Jian to divorce, Dong Jian was very filial to his mother and did not agree. But Jiang Yuling's approach hurt Dong Jian's heart.
Dong Jian drove a bus, and often went out at 5 o'clock in the morning and returned home at 11 or 2 o'clock in the evening, but when he got home, he had nothing to eat. Jiang Yuling only cooks for herself, and doesn't care about Dong Jian at all, even after she has children, she only does her mother's third, she doesn't leave a bite for Dong Jian to eat, and she doesn't wash Dong Jian's clothes.
So much so that Dong Jian had to cook and eat by himself at more than eleven o'clock in the evening, which made Dong Jian's mother knowFirst, he felt sorry for his son, and second, he was even more dissatisfied with Jiang Yuling and asked Dong Jian and Jiang Yuling to divorce。Dong Jian couldn't feel the warmth of his family in Jiang Yuling, and his wife didn't feel sorry for him, so he was naturally full of complaints after a long time.
Jiang Yuling also hated Dong Jian's parents, in her opinion, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but in that case, the parents persuaded their son to divorce, they were all persuaded to divorce, and Dong Jian's parents deliberately created contradictions between their husband and wife.
When the two children were a few years old, Dong JianSue for divorce, but Jiang Yuling disagreed, the husband and wife originally lived together, and the relationship was thin, Jiang Yuling treated him like this. Unwilling to divorce, Dong Jian simply went home less, and soon Jiang Yuling found that Dong Jian's clothes often had women's long hair, and the first feeling was that Dong Jian was cheating, so he secretly followed him, and sure enough, he found that he was fooling around with other womenJiang Yuling quietly took a picture of the evidence of Dong Jian's derailment with her mobile phone, and also blocked the men and women who cheated
But Jiang Yuling didn't make a fuss about the divorce, she had already heard about it, the old city planning,The old house of the Dong family is about to be demolished, how can he be willing to divorce at this time, what can he get if he is divorced? How should a woman live with a child?
So Jiang Yuling played the emotional card, saying that the children were still young and did not want to divorce, and knelt down to beg her in-laws, but neither Dong Jian nor his parents ignored it and still insisted on asking for a divorce. Jiang Yuling dragged it like this, Dong Jian had no choice, his parents paid him to rent a house nearby, cook for him, and leave dinner for him.
Since then, the relationship between the two has been complicated, and it is better to say that they are husband and wife than familiar strangers, because the two children barely maintain their marriage.
Five years ago, the old house of the Dong family was finally demolished, with a total of more than 2 million demolition money, Dong Jian had a son, and his parents were not partial, and gave Dong Jian's family of 4 people, 200,000 yuan each, a total of 800,000 yuan for demolition, in addition, his parents gave Dong Jian 350,000 yuan to buy a house for Dong Jian and Jiang Yuling.
Dong Jian took out the 800,000 yuan for the mortgage, with a total of 300,000 interest, adding up1.1 million, these money are stored in different passbooks, usually spend wages, soGenerally, Dong Jian didn't investigate, he didn't expect that Jiang Yuling, who was not of the same heart as him, had been quietly transferring his property, and he didn't find out until he got cancer
One day, Dong Jian suddenly felt unwell, Dong Jian had always had a headache and tinnitus before, he thought it was the reason for the long driving time, this time the headache almost fainted, so that Dong Jian realized that he had to go to check, but the doctor told him that he had itAdvanced nasopharyngeal carcinoma, Dong Jian did not believe in evil, went to several hospitals, and the diagnosis was the same, he was only 44 years old, and he couldn't believe that his time was short.
However, the matter has come to this, Dong Jian must face it, he wants to live, after he told his parents and Jiang Yuling the news, although his parents were sad, they still hoped that he could be positive, but Jiang Yuling's expression was ugly.
After that, Dong Jian began to take medicine and chemotherapy, even if he knew that it was just delaying time, it would be good to live one more day. Who knew that after several chemotherapy treatments, Jiang Yuling was reluctant to pay any more, and she told Dong Jian: ".You have spent more than 40,000 yuan on treatment, this seems to be a bottomless pit, or don't treat it, the two children are still young, and you still have to save some money to raise the children
These words naturally made Dong Jian very unhappy, what does this mean? Wish he were going to die sooner? immediately asked Jiang Yuling to go to the hospital to pay the bill, but Jiang Yuling was unwilling, and finally became anxious, Jiang Yuling said directly: "There is no money at home, and it is all spent on the child." ”
Dong Jian naturally didn't believe it, but he saved 1.1 million at the beginning, no matter how much they spent it, they had to have a **100,000. However, Jiang Yuling said that she had no money, and asked him to go to the bank to check if she didn't believe it. In this way, Dong Jian went to the bank, and after checking it, there was no money, and the balance on the passbook was only one piece of seven. Take 49,000 every time, so that he doesn't want to go to the bank in person, and he won't be discovered, he didn't expect Jiang Yuling to have so many eyes.
The money is gone, Dong Jian naturally wants to ask clearly, he still needs money for his own treatment, of course, he knows that Jiang Yuling took out the money for the two children, but it is the joint property of their husband and wife, and they should take out part of it for their own treatment, so he asked Jiang Yuling to pay.
But Jiang Yuling was reluctant to live or die, and said: ".You can't cure this disease, don't treat it, it will only waste money, the child is still young, and you have to keep the money for the child to go to college and get married. Otherwise, if you ask your parents for money, they still have a lot of more than one million pension money, isn't it natural for parents to treat their son's illness?
Dong Jian naturally didn't want to, it was his parents' pension money, he couldn't fight this idea, after his death, his parents would have to rely on that money to enjoy their old age, and he had to ask Jiang Yuling to take the money. Jiang Yuling's reluctance to pay money here was also known to Dong Jian's parents, who came to Dong Jian's house and asked Jiang Yuling to take out the money: "The money is for my son and grandson, no matter how bad it is, it is the joint property of the husband and wife, why do you quietly transfer it away, you are a crime, you must take out this money." ”
Yuling was not to be outdone: "It's impossible to take the money, I still have to support myself and my two children with the money, Dong Jian is your son, you have money, you take it out to treat him?" "The two sides quarreled endlessly, and neither of them wanted to take the money, and Tung Jian was the most uncomfortable in the middle.
His wife Jiang Yuling is the most undesirable, he transferred all 900,000 yuan, did not pay for his own treatment, and forced himself to ask his parents for pension money, he couldn't do this, he still asked Jiang Yuling to take the money, but Jiang Yuling replied indifferently: ".Your parents can support the elderly, what should I do if I support the elderly? What about two children? Your disease can't be cured anyway, so why bother tossing around and spending that unjust money?
Seeing this, Dong Jian had no choicesued for divorce again and demanded the recovery of the 900,000, also invited the reporter emotional mediator, as a result, no matter what the mediator said, Jiang Yuling just didn't take the money, ** A few days ago, Jiang Yuling found Dong Jian and cried: "Don't you want a divorce?" Yes, one child per person, half of the RV, break up peacefully, you can withdraw the lawsuit. ”
Dong Jian promised to withdraw the lawsuit, but the divorce division of property, and the return of the 900,000 yuan, had to be written, Jiang Yuling was reluctant to make a written note, seeing this, Dong Jian was completely disappointed, and said that he would let the court make a judgment. In the end, Dong Jian could only take 200,000 yuan from his parents for treatment and wait for the court's verdict.
Objectively speaking, Dong Jian's terminal cancer, unless there is a miracle, it is bound to be that the money is spent, the people are gone, and in the end, both people and money are gone. For Jiang Yuling,She and Dong Jian have been married for 16 years, but there is almost no relationship, she transferred all 900,000 yuan, and was unwilling to treat Dong Jian, because she was worried that both people and money would be empty, and in the end, her children and her own life would not be guaranteed, so she forced Dong Jian to ask her parents for pension money for treatment
For Dong Jian's parents,This is his own coffin, Dong Jian's time is short, his daughter-in-law is not in harmony with them, and he can't count on his daughter-in-law, so for them, this money is the foundation for them to enjoy their old ageBesides, they gave Dong Jian so much money, but they let Jiang Yuling all transfer away, they were very disappointed in their son Dong Jian, they were too incompetent, and took 10,000 steps back and said that taking the money is also the joint property of their husband and wife, and it should be taken out for Dong Jian's treatment, and there is no reason to let his parents pay for it.
Married for 16 years,His wife Jiang Yuling and Dong Jian are not single-minded, they don't care about him, they don't honor their parents, they don't want to divorce for the sake of demolition money, they deliberately drag Dong Jian, and when Dong Jian's cancer is terminal, and when time is running out, she also swept away all the money, such a woman is really speechless, isn't she afraid of setting a bad example for her two children? Dong Jian is indeed incompetent, since he has no feelings, he divorced early, and he can't leave, even so, the family's economic power is still in the hands of his wife who is not single-minded, and he ends up in the dilemma of asking Bo Gong for money to treat his illness in the end, which is really pitiful and pathetic.
I hope that in the end, Dong Jian will be able to divorce in dignity and peace, and ask for money back for medical treatment. What do you think of Jiang Yuling's approach?