Only by entering the child's heart; in order to understand the child; Many times; When we communicate with our children; They often respond with silence; In this regard; We are usually angry; But actually; The reason why children are reluctant to talk to us; It's because we haven't gone into the hearts of our children; Didn't know what they really thought.
You're not a complaining parent
There are also some parents who are always like a "sister-in-law", complaining about themselves and others. I often hear parents say this, "I've worked hard for this family, I'm too tired", "You and my dad can't understand me, and you don't help me, I'm too tired". There are a lot of negative emotions, these emotions are passed on to children, and under the influence of negative emotions, the negative energy in the heart will accumulate more and more.
1. Communicate with each other often:
There is a psychological gap between the two generations, that is, the "generation gap", and there is no better way to eliminate the "generation gap" than to communicate on an equal footing and to strengthen dialogue. For example, when a child comes home, he or she asks: What's new at school today? What's the name of the new student in your class? Like him or not? Wait a minute. Ordinary conversations will arouse the child's interest and generate.
2. Treat children equally
Every child exists as a living individual, although they are not old and tall, they have thoughts and brains. The fourth level of Maslow's hierarchy of needs theory is the need for respect, which includes two aspects: being respected and self-respecting, the former wants the attention of others, and the latter wants the individual to have value.
Educating children is like raising flowers, careful watering, fertilization, and care can be successful, but in fact, not everyone can raise flowers well, and if you don't understand, you have to ask others for advice and learn the experience and art of raising flowers.
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