Miss Wen Buzheng.
I still remember the one "Coming Home".Scumbag + green teaIs the standard version of the TV series? Ellie in the play, as the adopted daughter of the heroine's family and the heroine's best friend, verbally wishes the male and female protagonists as husband and wife happiness, but secretly steals with the male protagonist and conspires to kill the heroine. When I was watching the drama, I was so angry with this green tea that I couldn't wait to beat that scheming in the play.
In life, have you met those "green tea" women who are pure on the surface, but are actually full of scheming? Today I will reveal to you how to tear green tea by hand, so that you can fly so cool in interpersonal communication!
First, we need to know howIdentify the green tea womanWhat characteristics do they all have in common?
Good at pretending to be pure
Green tea girls often pretend to be innocent and innocent, showing ignorance and innocence of the world.
Be empathetic
Green tea girls are usually very empathetic and can understand the emotions and needs of others, and they will comfort them in a timely manner, making people feel warm and grateful.
There is a difference between men and women
Men and girls will have different attitudes in front of each other. In front of men, green tea women are good at showing weakness in order to win the protection of men.
Hearts and mouths are different
Dudal, one in front of one behind the other.
Love to provoke
He is good at juggling right and wrong, provoking relationships with others, and using contradictions in interpersonal relationships to gain his own interests.
Ambiguous master
The green tea woman has a vague attitude towards feelings and likes to maintain ambiguous relationships with multiple people.
Passing the buck
Don't admit your mistakes, always look for other people's problems.
Good at imitation
Be good at perceiving and imitating the words and actions of others, and show similar interests and hobbies in an appropriate way, so as to make the other person feel close to each other, so as to establish good interpersonal relationships.
Well, when we meet such a hateful green tea girl, thatHow to fight backThis?
First of all,Keep your emotions in check
It is very important to remain calm and rational, not to be provoked by the words or actions of the tea lady, and not to give her a chance to tell the truth.
At the same time,Be vigilant and not gullible
Learn to observe the words and deeds of green tea women, be vigilant against them, analyze and judge, and not be easily deceived by their appearance.
Stick to your position and bottom line
In the face of the ** and provocation of green tea girls, we must keep a clear head, trust our own judgment, and not waver easily. Don't let their pleas or threats discourage them from taking a stand.
Have the courage to communicate directly
When a tea lady makes an unreasonable request, learn to communicate directly and say "no!".”。Say no decisively, don't be soft-hearted. When necessary, calmly reveal their true colors.
Life is like a fragrant cup of tea, sometimes we taste sweet, sometimes we may encounter bitterness. And the green tea girl, like a leaf inadvertently mixed in this cup of tea, although it briefly disturbs the tranquility of tea, it should not let this hinder our progress.
Remember, every confrontation with green tea girls is a valuable opportunity for us to exercise our minds and improve our self-awareness. When we are able to smile at their tricks and calmly reveal their true colors, we will find that we ourselves have become more mature and resilient in the process. Life can be like a hanging.