Every festive season, going home for the New Year should be a warm time of reunion, but for many single young people, it has become a "marriage war". Do you feel at a loss in the face of your family's ardent expectations and serial urgings? Don't worry, I'm going to teach you three tricks today, so that you can easily cope with the pressure of urging marriage!
The first move: take the initiative and grasp the right to speak.
Instead of being beaten passively, it is better to take the initiative. Before your family starts the marriage urging mode, you can take the initiative to share your feelings and marriage views. Emphasize that marriage is not child's play, you need to take it seriously and find the right partner to enter the marriage hall. In this way, you both express your position and have a voice, so that your family knows your thoughts and attitudes.
The second trick: change the topic and skillfully resolve the embarrassment.
When family members are urging you to get married, you can try to shift the conversation and take the focus away from yourself. For example, chatting about interesting stories about relatives and friends, asking about the health of family members, etc., make the atmosphere relaxed and pleasant. This can not only resolve the embarrassing situation, but also enhance family communication.
The third trick: overcome rigidity with softness and communicate patiently.
In the face of pressure from family members to urge marriage, do not adopt excessive words and deeds. Instead, you should remain calm and patient and communicate with your family in a gentle tone. Explain your difficulties and concerns, so that your family can feel your sincerity and helplessness. At the same time, it is also necessary to understand the good intentions of the family members and try to reach consensus and compromise.
Although it is a headache to urge marriage during the New Year, as long as we adopt the right methods and strategies, we can easily deal with this "big war". Remember, marriage is not the whole of life, we also have things to pursue such as careers, friends, and dreams. So, in the face of the pressure of urging marriage, please maintain a confident and optimistic attitude, and bravely pursue your happiness!