After a banquet was held in Qianxi, Guizhou, when the gift money was checked, it was surprising to find that the gift money had been reduced by 40,000 yuan. It's unbelievable! Normally, people attend a banquet with a gift of about 500 yuan, and a gap of 40,000 yuan is equivalent to a loss of 80 guests. Such a large discrepancy is almost incredible. On the Internet, some people speculate that a gift money of 4,000 yuan may have been mistakenly written as 40,000 yuan. Someone else shared that when their son got married in the hotel, the accounts did not match, and finally found out that the hotel returned the 100 yuan deposit. In addition, some netizens mentioned that their local practice is to put the gift money into a red envelope and mark the name, and finally the owner personally handles it to ensure that there is no mistake in the penny. This eliminates the hassle of bookkeeping. In addition, it is also believed that the guest may have given the gift money directly to the host and did not record it in the account book, thus causing the difference. And some netizens suggested that the bookkeeper may have been negligent in bookkeeping and wrote an extra zero. This kind of bookkeeping work, once there is a mistake, will bring trouble to the owner, and eventually the bookkeeper will need to make up for it. I once had the experience of helping relatives keep accounts, but because the relatives did not understand the identity of the accompanying person, the final difference amounted to hundreds of yuan, and it was almost unpleasant. From then on, I didn't want to keep accounts on behalf of anyone else.
In the end, the owner issued a ** saying that the reason for the decrease in the gift money was that someone took the gift money that was asked for the account. After further investigation, the matter was discovered. This is quite puzzling, is the person who asks for the account the person in charge of the bookkeeping? The lack of 40,000 yuan in gift money means that the total amount of gift money has reached at least 100,000 yuan, which is definitely not the amount of gift money that ordinary families can receive. In general, the way the guest puts the gift money in a red envelope and marks his name and gives it to the host seems to be more reliable. And the act of asking for accounts, taking the gift money directly without telling the owner, seems to be not honest enough. Ladies and gentlemen, what do you think about this?
In family banquets, the importance of gift money management cannot be ignored. Every guest who gives a gift hopes that their heart can be delivered sincerely. However, if there is a problem in the management of the gift money, it may lead to unnecessary misunderstandings and disputes. Therefore, the host can take some measures to regulate the collection and management of the gift money, such as setting up a special person to be responsible for accepting the gift money and registering it carefully, or using red envelopes and labeling them with the name of the giver. At the same time, guests should also pay attention to the delivery method of the gift money, and avoid directly handing over the gift money to the host without going through the record, so as not to cause management confusion. Careful handling of gift money not only reflects respect for etiquette, but also avoids unnecessary troubles and disputes. Gift money should be a carrier of emotional communication, not a source of conflict.
Gift money management is a delicate but important part of a family gathering. This story shows the importance of careful management of key money. For the host, it is necessary to carefully check the amount of gift money to ensure that the mind of each gift giver is properly recorded. Guests also need to pay attention to the way the gift money is delivered to avoid unnecessary troubles caused by improper operations. As a kind of human affection generation, when it can be passed smoothly, the purpose of conveying affection can be truly achieved. Therefore, in the future family gatherings, we should also take precautions, treat every gift money carefully, treat every emotion with heart, and let every gathering be full of warmth and joy.