Times are changing, and we can no longer force our children to read as we did in the pastThis is no longer a decision that will bring long-term benefits. We should respect each child's individuality and talents, rather than simply forcing them to pursue academic achievement.
Nowadays, many people are still stuck in the old ideology, thinking that "if you don't suffer from learning now, you will suffer from life in the future", but this view is no longer applicable to today's society.
We can't blindly ask our children to go to school just because of anxiety and stress. Every child has their own strengths and interests, and we should respect and nurture these traits rather than force them to become the people we want them to be.
Forcing children to read too much may not only cause them to lose their self-confidence, courage and enthusiasm, but also damage the parent-child relationship and even lead to tragedy. Eventually, we may end up with a child who lacks confidence in themselves and has no enthusiasm for life, who may become unmotivated, get by, unwilling to face challenges, and may even develop depression.
We must recognize that not all children are suitable for the path of schooling. Some children are naturally smart, they are suitable for studying, are able to get into good universities easily, and are less stressed and hurt in the learning process. And some children are not very talented, they may be more suitable to take a different path, accept ordinary education naturally, but be physically and mentally healthy, confident, aggressive, and enthusiastic about life.
What we need to understand is that a child with an ordinary education who is physically and mentally healthy, sunny and confident may not be worse than a child with a high education who is physically and mentally exhausted. However, many parents still like to deceive themselves, and they are reluctant to admit that each child has their own unique value and potential.
We need to re-examine our expectations of our children and the way we educate them, so that each child can shine in their own areas of expertise. Most parents expect their children to be the best of the best, but in reality, their children's innate strengths in terms of intelligence, personality, and origin are not enough to support them in achieving this goal.
In today's society, parents themselves are the biggest reliance on their children's future, and parents are strong enough to provide enough social resources for their children and provide more opportunities for their children to try and make mistakes. Some people think that just forcing children can make others dragons and phoenixes, relying on him to study hard for more than ten years, he has to surpass the efforts of other generations for hundreds of years, how small is this probability, why bother...
Therefore, parents should pay more attention to their own educational styles and methods when educating their children, rather than just focusing on the children themselves. Parents should set an example for their children and guide them to form the right values and outlook on life. At the same time, parents should also respect their children's individuality and interests, and cultivate their creativity and independent thinking skills. Only in this way can we truly help children grow into excellent talents and make them invincible in the future society.