When you are old, who accompanies you to the old age can be glimpsed in the hospital ward.
The family members and caregivers who are attending to the elderly at the bedside will be compared and ranked according to their level of care and patience.
The first place: the old man's wife.
Some elderly people are hospitalized, their wives are also in the hospital, and their children come to visit, just for a while, and they don't have to do anything, they are done. This kind of old man is sometimes very hypocritical, and his or her children often can't handle him or her, and the matter of serving and urine must be left to his wife.
Some elderly people are old, and their wives are too busy to take care of themselves and can't accompany them. I can only come to visit, come to sit at the head of the bed and gaze at each other, this situation can move people.
In the hospital ward, the elderly accompany the elderly, which is always a soft picture. Have they been so loving all their lives? No, their lives are also like all couples in the world, but when they are old, most of them can rely on each other under the light of family affection.
Second place: the old man's daughter.
The daughter accompanies the most intimate people, whether it is the father or the mother, there is basically no obstacle to communication in all aspects, all-round service, feeding, washing and ......There is basically no gender barrier when scrubbing the father's body.
Daughter escorts can also bring warmth to a somewhat depressed ward, they are relatively good at communication, empathetic, can quickly heat up with the adjacent bed, can take care of each other, and in general, can help patients in the same ward within their ability.
Third place: the old man's son.
The son takes care of the elderly, is relatively dull, and his patience is not as good as that of his daughter. There are some things that can't be done, such as scrubbing my mother's body, and I have to rely on my family. However, the traditional concept is that the son is the one who makes decisions at home, and when the son is there, the old man is generally more determined.
When the son is there, the old man will also be quieter, a little patriarchal eccentricity, and some things that are close to him, he would rather endure it himself than keep his daughter to do it.
Fourth place: the old man's daughter-in-law and son-in-law.
Daughters-in-law and sons-in-law are mostly polite, and generally do not "sit on duty" and are temporary substitutes. The elderly generally do not let them serve personally, and sometimes they would rather endure it when they have a need, and wait for their children to solve it.
The daughter-in-law and son-in-law who are willing to do everything will be praised by the elderly and their families in the ward, as if they have found a model of a good daughter-in-law and a good son-in-law, just like a legend in the ward.
Fifth place: the third generation of the elderly.
Grandchildren, granddaughters, grandchildren, granddaughters, even if the old people brought up with good feelings and relatives, they only came to visit, and it was rare to see them stay to accompany them.
What's with? Is it that the next generation is not as close as the biological parents, or is there a difference in responsibilities and obligations? Or do their parents, grandfathers, and grandmothers feel sorry for them?
Sixth place: Caregivers hired by the elderly.
Some of the elderly who are busy with work or have other reasons and have no children can only hire caregivers.
Theoretically, nursing care is more professional than family care, so why put nursing staff at the bottom. Because at present, there is still a lot of room for improvement in the professional level of most hospital nurses.
Whether the caregiver is in place depends on whether the elderly are lucky or not. When you meet a good nurse, Amitabha, when you meet a bad nurse, it's hard to say, so I won't say more here.
Everyone, am I right?