No matter who we owe him anything, there is no need to be submissive.
We have our own values and lifestyles, and we have the right to choose how we treat others and the world.
Proper expression and communication are key to building healthy relationships. When we feel stressed or upset, try to express our feelings and thoughts in a positive way. We can communicate with others in an open, honest, and respectful way, which not only avoids misunderstandings and conflicts, but also builds deeper relationships.
However, there are times when we may put pressure or expectations on us. In this case, we don't have to be too nervous or worried about offending them. We should be firm in expressing our positions and values while maintaining respect and understanding. When we treat others with openness and honesty, they will generally respect our decisions and choices.
In addition, we need to learn to distinguish between real authority and false authority. True authority is based on knowledge and experience, while false authority is often based on power or status. When we confront true authorities, we should respect their knowledge and experience and seek their advice and support.
In short, no matter who we are in front of, as long as we do not owe anything to him, there is no need to be submissive. We should stick to our values and way of life while remaining open, honest, and respectful. In this way, we can not only build healthier relationships, but also create a more free and meaningful living environment for ourselves.