In this bustling world, each of us floats in the sea of people like duckweed leaves. Everyone has a unique appearance and interior, and each other's emotions change quickly. Therefore, we need to respect others, know how not to interfere in other people's affairs easily, and also need to take responsibility for our own lives and do everything carefully.
As a responsible person, please be careful with what you say and do to avoid getting into trouble for no reason. The ancients said: "Learn to speak in one year, and learn to shut up in one life." "In this world, people can blurt out good things, bad things, or nonsense. However, not everyone has such self-control, so it is not easy to silence a person. Therefore, a person who can control his own mouth, do not gossip about others, do not discuss the good or bad of others, and does not interfere in other people's private affairs is a smart person who really knows how to restrain himself.
People's hearts are unpredictable, and the world is difficult. We must learn to protect ourselves and avoid causing unnecessary trouble to ourselves. As the saying goes, "It's not that you have many friends, but that you are a good person." It's not about talking too much, it's about being reasonable. "Talking too much leads to mistakes, and saying too much makes no sense. 。The more you talk, the more mistakes you make and the easier it is to get caught. As Lu Xun said: "When I am silent, I feel very full, and when I speak, I feel very empty."
In life, we should try to interfere as little as possible in other people's affairs. But focus on your life. It's not that we don't have the spirit of helping each other, it's just that sometimes we can't help each other, and if we don't, it will only become more difficult, and in the end it may outweigh the losses. Therefore, we must be self-disciplined, stop interfering in other people's affairs, live our own lives well, and the most important thing is to keep our original intentions.
But do good deeds and don't hurt others. "We shouldn't try to change anyone. Only you can change them. Everyone has their own way of life and space, and even if it is a small dispute between husband and wife, you should not meddle in it. There are many examples in the real world where good intentions have become excuses for others, making an otherwise small problem bigger and more difficult to deal with.
Generally speaking, we must be responsible people, keep our mouths shut, and keep our hearts and minds not to make mistakes. Such a life will be comfortable and stable. People have a thousand different faces, and there are a thousand different changes in people's hearts, so don't interfere in other people's affairs, and do your own things seriously!