Actress Chen Wei has not done housework for 31 years after marriage, and her husband: doing housework is an insult to her talent.
Chen Wei, a famous graduate of Military Medical University, academician of the Academy of Engineering, and major general of the People's Liberation Army, is talented and eye-catching.
In 2003, the scientific research team led by Chen Wei developed a new drug against SARS; In 2014, a new type of Ebola virus vaccine was developed, which overcame the world's biggest difficulties and won unanimous praise from the international community.
At the beginning of 2020, in the process of fighting the new coronavirus, Chen Wei resolutely devoted herself to the fight against SARS, and after more than 50 days of hard work, she finally developed a new coronavirus vaccine, saving hundreds of millions of lives.
Chen Wei's achievements have been fully recognized, and she was awarded the glorious title of "People's Hero" on September 8 this year, and was named a "great hero" in the eyes of the people of the whole country.
I have to say that behind Chen Wei, there is a very powerful man who has been secretly helping her.
His name is Ma Yiming.
In 19**, Ma Yiming took the train from Beijing to Qingdao and accidentally noticed a Chen Wei, who ignored the bumpy train and the noisy ** around her, and concentrated on reading.
Just when Ma Yiming was fascinated, Chen Wei suddenly raised his head, and the two looked at each other.
Ma Yiming pointed to the position beside him with some embarrassment and motioned for Chen Wei to sit down.
When Chen Wei saw Ma Yiming's honest face, she didn't feel anything wrong, so she sat down beside him.
They had a great chat along the way. After some conversation, Chen Wei learned that Ma Yiming was a technician in a winery and was 12 years older. Ma Yiming found out that Chen Wei was admitted to Zhejiang University and was sent to Tsinghua University.
Ma Yiming fell in love with Chen Wei, but because of the huge difference in age and culture, he felt ashamed of himself.
When the train was slowly moving and the two were about to break up, Ma Yiming finally mustered up his strength and asked Chen Wei for the ** number.
Chen Wei has a very high opinion of Ma Yiming, so she didn't hesitate and told him her ** number.
A week later, in Chen Wei's bedroom, the mobile phone rang, and Ma Yiming was already waiting for her at Tsinghua University.
They've been in contact remotely, and they're finally together.
However, when this matter was known to relatives and friends, Chen Wei became the target of public criticism, and everyone felt that she was not pleasing to the eye, and even felt that Ma Yiming was not suitable for her at all.
Ma Yiming's family also thinks that Chen Wei is still young and not suitable to settle down with him.
However, the words of others do not affect them. Chen Wei has always been resolute in doing things, and no one can change what she believes.
Ma Yiming resigned and lived in Beijing with Chen Wei to show his firmness.
The house they rented was less than 20 square meters in size and had a bed, a sofa, and a gas stove for cooking.
But these will not prevent them from living happily, but will make them work harder.
In the year Chen Wei graduated from university, many pharmaceutical companies wanted to invite her. After careful consideration, she decided to start her career in a well-known company in Shenzhen.
Ma Yiming saw that Chen Wei had her own career, so he made up his mind to catch up with her and let her have a better future.
But just when they thought that the overall situation was decided, their lives changed dramatically.
Chen Wei was admitted to the Military Medical College in April 1991 under a good opportunity. She was deeply awed when she visited the institute.
Suddenly, she thought of the historical origin of this school, which was during the Korean War, when ** had ordered the best scientists to protect the safety of the motherland and set up this school.
So, Chen Wei resolutely resigned from her current company and devoted herself to the *** department. However, when her parents learned about it, they disagreed.
Only Ma Yiming stood on Chen Wei's side, thinking that Chen Wei would definitely be able to go further if he went to the army.
Chen Wei got Ma Yiming's help, so she didn't have to worry about it in the future. She immediately packed her luggage and rushed to the Chinese Academy of Sciences in Fengtai Town.
Fengtai Town is located in a remote area, the environment is harsh, and life in the barracks is extremely cruel and boring. In addition, Chen Wei also encountered a lot of difficulties, and also encountered a lot of difficulties, and also encountered a lot of troubles.
However, Ma Yiming would bring Chen Wei some daily necessities every time, which made her very grateful, and the worries in her heart disappeared.
In the end, the persistence of the two of them also touched their parents. They married in 1992.
After getting married, Ma Yiming has been busy with work and family chores, never let Chen Wei interfere in family affairs, nor let her worry about anything, and devoted himself to her research.
They gave birth to a son in 1998. A month after the baby was born, Chen Wei rushed to the laboratory.
Household chores such as eating and changing the children's diapers are all handled by Ma Yiming, but he never complains, takes care of the children and takes care of his family.
In 2003, during the SARS epidemic, Chen Wei and several of them stayed in the research room, even changing adult diapers to save valuable time.
Fortunately, they have already developed the first anti-SARS drug.
Hearing the news, everyone except Chen Wei and others was relieved. However, the children who had not seen their mothers for more than 100 days complained about their mothers.
Ma Yiming took the trouble to tell his mother's profession, "Mother is a big hero, we have to understand her and support her." ”
Although the child did not understand very well, he at least understood that anyone who does good is a hero. So every time he saw his mother on TV, he couldn't help but kiss her.
In 2004, SARS defeated Huaxia, and Chen Wei also became an instant hit, but she did not get carried away, but has been working hard.
Chen Wei rushed to Sichuan immediately after the 2008 Wenchuan Da** to guide the local prevention and control work;
In 2014, Chen Wei led a scientific research team to successfully develop the Ebola virus, which caused an international and domestic sensation.
That is, in 2020, Chen Wei led her team to finally develop a vaccine for the new coronavirus after more than 50 days of hard work. Chen Wei was also awarded the national "People's Hero" medal because of this incident.
Chen Wei couldn't cry when she faced the **: "We have our own patents, no matter where we go, we don't need to bow to anyone!" ”
The new crown vaccine gives us self-confidence, with Chen Wei, we have self-confidence, and we have heroes!
It is with heroes like Chen Wei who are selfless and dedicated, their sacrifices make our lives more peaceful.
We can't ignore Ma Yiming behind Chen Wei, it was he who silently sacrificed himself on the road of *** in order to protect her.
Everyone knows that behind a successful man, there is always a woman who is silently doing everything for him. But now, perhaps, behind those successful women, there will also be a man, a man who always gives in silence.
Therefore, while advocating for gender equality, it is also expected that more fresh ideas will emerge. Don't think that women have to take on the responsibility of housework and taking care of children, men can also play a big role at home, as Ma Yiming once said in an interview: Let Chen Wei do housework, it's just a condescension! 」