In the journey of life, we will encounter all kinds of people and things, some of which make us feel warm and happy, and some of which make us feel pain and loss. Time is the best filter for you to see a person for who he really is and understand what is really important to him.
I once met a person who made me feel happier and warmer than before. I met her by chance when I was at the lowest point in my life, and her gaze gave me hope and courage. We have had a lot of good times together, and we have also faced a lot of difficulties and challenges together. I thought we'd go on like this, but we broke up.
In the days following the breakup, I was plunged into deep pain and remorse. I lost him because I felt like I wasn't good enough or not good enough. I reminisced about my past and tried to figure out my mistakes and shortcomings. I think of him every day, of what we have done together, of what we have said. I felt like I couldn't let go of him and I couldn't forget him.
But as time goes on, some things pass and some leave. You can't keep drowning in the memories of the past, you can't keep tormenting yourself and blaming yourself. I need to liberate myself, come out of the shadows, and learn to embrace the future again.
So I started trying to change myself. I participated in various events and made many new friends. I have learned new knowledge and skills and improved my abilities and qualities. I travel, see the world, and expand my horizons and mind. I found myself more confident, stronger, and learned how to appreciate the people and things around me.
Now, I'm no longer a person who dwells on memories of the past. I learned to liberate myself, step out of the shadows, and embrace the future again. We will encounter many different people and things in life, some people make us feel warm and happy, and some people make us feel pain and loss. But no matter who or what we encounter, we must learn to accept it, face it, learn to let go, and learn to make ourselves stronger and braver.
Time can understand people, it takes time to understand their hearts, and if you don't know anything, you can't understand people. Time is the best filter, and year is the truest identification. The best liberation in the world is to liberate oneself, not to fight against the past. Because the past is gone. Only by letting go of oneself can we embrace the future and embrace a better life.