The first date is especially important for both parties. The girls spend hours choosing the right outfits, matching shoes, and putting on makeup, eager to show their value for the date in a beautiful and proper image. In order to avoid embarrassment, they go online **various**, learn from the experience of others, learn the words and deeds of successful daters, and even try to imitate the sitting posture. In the same way, the boy also prepared thoroughly, from hairstyle to mannerism, repeated rehearsal in advance, and as the date time approached, the tension and excitement in his heart increased, although everyone knew that it was all a lot of effort.
In order to make a good first impression on each other, both parties strive for perfection before meeting. When the four eyes meet, I hope that the other party can sincerely exclaim, and on the way to meet, the flowers and plants on the side of the road seem to be particularly warm and lovely. Between people, familiar and a little strange, at this time the freshness and desire to explore is the strongest, both sides are willing to show the best side, collide with each other.
However, by the hundredth date, they had gotten to know each other well enough to stop working as hard as they did the first time. Wear a casual T-shirt and slippers, and go on a date that is no longer limited to eating, watching a movie, or shopping. Before eating, stroll through the streets and alleys, chat about family life, and gossip. When hunger strikes, find a random place to eat, and if the girl can't finish eating, the boy will naturally take it. Rather than watching a movie, two people prefer to walk together, walk slowly down the street, and feel the smell of Ishii's fireworks, which is perhaps more romantic than hugging and kissing, because life is not always obvious.
When it comes to quarrels, both sides are full of desire to win during the first quarrel, and they must be divided into winners. If you are wrong, you are wrong, and if you are wrong, you must admit your mistake and apologize. However, the party who is arguing for the first time may not be aware of their problem, and may not even admit their mistake even if they know that they are wrong, and will argue loudly and confidently. As time goes on, the topic of the quarrel becomes more and more unpleasant, and the tone becomes heavier and heavier. As the lyrics say, use all the words of the businessman to speak, only to find that the words in your mouth are irreparable, and will only bring more loss and sadness.
However, by the hundredth time, both sides had enough to understand each other's pain points. No matter how fierce the quarrel is, it will avoid this point and no longer intentionally hurt the other party. In order to live in harmony, even if you are not wrong, you will take the initiative to lower your body and no longer fight to win or lose. Especially in front of boys, once the girl shows dissatisfaction, the boy will take the initiative to give in. In front of the person you like, face is not the most important thing, both parties prefer to stay calm and avoid spending the night with emotions with each other.
When it comes to topics such as the future and marriage, the reaction of both parties may be lofty and uncertain when first mentioned. Because they are not sure whether they will be able to go to the end, even if both parties are looking to the future, they dare not make promises lightly. Even if a guy says he loves you all his life in front of a girl, the girl may just hear it and won't take it seriously. Because such words seem cheap, effortless, and can be said by everyone. At the hundredth time, when you have experienced something, you have clarified each other's hearts, and then you can discuss the future, then the conversation will be more credible.
At this time, even if the girl does not take the initiative to mention it, the boy will spontaneously integrate the other into his life and begin to work together for the future of the two. One of the things that girls crave is that the person they like will consider their future development and truly integrate into each other's lives, and the boy will do his best to give happiness and stability to those around him. Because it is easy to pass away from a momentary emotion, and the peace of mind at that time is the most lasting.
At the end of a relationship, managing love is like being born and ripe. The first time it may have been uncertain, but by the hundredth time, it has become very determined. The first time it may be confusing, but by the hundredth time, it's already easy. As long as you have the heart, you can learn many things. Maybe because of love, we get better, let's do it together. For those who believe that they will go on for the rest of their lives, may everything be better.