There is a point of view in "Intimate Relationship": love in the right way, do not change each other, do not wronged ourselves, so that we can all love and be loved as we wish. Falling in love with someone is comfortable to get along with. If a man loves you, he won't leave you alone with all the gains and losses that come with this feeling in love. You can feel the love in the other person's attitude towards you. He will have such an initiative to give. 
First, in terms of time, take the initiative to payThis year's Spring Festival is the first time that my brother and daughter-in-law have been married. At this time of the year, my younger brother would go on a trip with his best buddies to spend the New Year in what he took for granted. He also told us that young people implement the "disconnection doctrine" during the New Year. This year, I left all my time at home, from the first day of the first year to the sixth day of the Spring Festival holiday, I stayed with my brother and daughter-in-law every step of the way, and honestly went to my relatives. A friend asked him to go to Xi'an to play, but he voluntarily refused. He said that the vacation that came so hard should be left to his family. Zeng Guofan has a famous saying:
The sky can be replenished, the sea can be filled, and the South Mountain can be moved; The sun and the moon are in the past, and they cannot be traced.Time is a person's most valuable asset.
If it weren't for love, no one would be willing to give wealth to others. A person's time is spent in, and the heart is in. 
Second, in terms of money, take the initiative to giveIn "The Wind Blows Banxia", Lao Su likes Xu Banxia. Lao Su is an ordinary doctor who doesn't have much money in his life, while Xu Banxia is an entrepreneur, whether it is the money he needs or the money he earns, it is in the tens of millions. Xu Banxia encountered a heavy blow in his career and asked for money turnover. Lao Su didn't know how much money Xu Banxia needed, so he took out all his savings and put them in front of Xu Banxia, hoping to help her tide over the difficulties in her career. Didn't think too much about it, and didn't think about the return. The world panicked, for a few taels of broken silver. Sometimes, in the world's perception, money is more precious than time. There will even be people who sacrifice their time for money. If a man loves you, he will be willing to give you something as important as money, because you are a more worthy priority than money. 
3. In life, take the initiative to planI watched a short ** and felt very warm. It's a pair of college students who are in a relationship. It is said that graduation season is the breakup season, and the two of them are also facing such a dilemma of going their separate ways, but no one escapes, but is seriously thinking about planning for the future. The boy took the initiative to decide to follow in the girl's footsteps. When the two of them have stable jobs, they get married. The boy also took the initiative to imagine the daily life of the two after they got married: commuting hand in hand, shopping and cooking together, and then getting together as a man and a woman. 
The man who loves you not only wants your present, but also wants your future. He won't give you a blank check, a false promise without any real action. You will see that he is changing for you, in order to meet your practical needs in life, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, and constantly working hard. There is a sentence in "The Loneliness of Prime Numbers":
Those who don't love us have only superficial love for us.Conversely, if a person loves you, the love will be deep.
He will give you the most precious things, put you first in life, take you seriously, and love you with all his heart. Enjoy the New Year