Money seems to be a sensitive subject in the relationships of our generation. The education we received from childhood was more tactful, subtle, courteous and humble. So much so that in many cases we don't get too direct. In love and marriage, many people come together because of love, not too much about money, more about going with the flow.
Many times we are not with you for money, so whether we are in love or after marriage, we will not talk about money directly, and we will only understand the amount of my husband's income, and I will not mention that my husband needs to hand over his salary. Although there will be this expectation in my heart, because the woman's sense of security will also be ** the husband's full support in life and finance.
In fact, talking about money is a sign of a mature marriage.
When a woman enters marriage and prepares to have children, she is likely to face career and income challenges. And the real state of marriage is firewood, rice, oil and salt, which is inseparable from the support of money. At this time, the wife is likely to feel entangled because her husband does not give her her salary. After all, they are not with their husbands for money, but if their husband's salary is not handed over to them, they will feel insecure if they really try to get pregnant.
Therefore, it is very normal for couples to talk about money with each other. Knowing each other's income can give you a better understanding of your current financial situation and prepare for future planning and spending. Clear financial planning is conducive to the stability and harmony of the family. By talking openly about money, as well as being clear about your husband's income, you can avoid unnecessary debts and doubts and lay a solid foundation for your future life.
Talking about money in marriage is not scary, but should be seen as a responsible and mature attitude. Through honesty and communication, couples can plan for the future together and achieve common goals and aspirations. Talking about money not only helps couples manage their finances better, but it also enhances trust and understanding between them.
Of course, you need to pay attention to the way and skill when talking about money. Husbands and wives should respect each other's opinions and feelings, and avoid unnecessary disputes and conflicts because of money. At the same time, it is necessary to make reasonable plans and arrangements according to the actual situation to ensure the financial stability and health of the family.
We need to be clear about the fact that it is very normal for husband and wife to talk about money. Through honesty and communication, we can better manage our finances and prepare for our future lives. At the same time, talking about money can also enhance the trust and understanding between couples, making our marriage more happy and happy.