Love is in the heart and never forget.
Mr. Yang Jiang once said: "How can a person who is in his heart say that he forgets it, and how can a person who is moved by love say that he will let it go." This sounds true, and it coincides with the story I experienced.
When I was a child, we walked hand in hand across the school campus like a young couple in a movie. In a long-distance relationship, every time we are separated, it hurts like a knife, but we try to persevere, believing that waiting for the day of reunion will be ushered in.
Finally, we got married, and I remember the tension and excitement as if we were about to embark on an adventure. These beautiful moments are all gifts from him. Our feelings are the kind that can withstand the baptism of time.
However, there are some things we can't change. He is gone, but his shadow remains in my heart. Sometimes, I meet him in my dreams and feel his warmth. It's like time hasn't separated us.
Mr. Yang Jiang said: "People who have entered the heart, they still miss whether they see it or not, and they will remember it if they are moved by the heart." That's a fitting statement. I often think of the times we walked together, those moments of holding hands, the tenderness of hugging, and the passion of kissing. These memories are so clear that they seem to be engraved in the bottom of my heart.
It has been said that time dilutes everything, but I have found that this is not true for people who love deeply. Time may be able to ** wounds, but for that sincere feeling, time just makes it deeper.
Mr. Yang Jiang also said: "If you can't forget, don't forget, the real relief is not to forget, but to remember." "It made me realize that forgetting is not liberation, and that true relief is finding a peace in memory. For me, the time I spent with him was the most precious experience in the first half of my life, and there was no need to force myself to forget it.
Some people may bury their feelings deep in their hearts, but as soon as they touch them, those memories will come flooding back to their hearts. I chose to keep him in my heart and continue to work hard to live and move forward with his love. His presence is the source of my strength.
Getting out of the pain of widowhood is not the same as forgetting. Why forget, it is a part of our youth, a loved one, a journey in our lives. We don't need to force ourselves to forget, but to accept the memories that belong to us and appreciate the good times he gave us.
Some people may think that once you lose a loved one, you should forget it completely, but this is not the case. We can keep them in our hearts, give them a permanent place, and continue to work hard in life. This is not a denial of the past, but an affirmation of the present and the future.
So, don't try to forget your loved ones. Accept the memories that belong to you and be grateful for the beauty they bring to your life. In the garden of memory, let us fly together and let the bits and pieces of the past turn into memories that will never fade. In the process, we continue to grow and continue to love.
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