In this fast-paced world, we have to deal with a variety of people and things every day. Sometimes, we meet people who are obviously unkind to us, even deliberately provocative, but when we are ready to fight back, they tell us to have a pattern. In the same way, when we try to reason with some people, they tell us to have a pattern in a down-the-nut way. The behavior of these people makes one wonder, what is the pattern?
In real life, pattern refers to a person's vision, mind, and way of thinking. People who have a big picture are usually able to look at problems from a higher perspective and will not worry about small things. They are able to tolerate and understand different perspectives and behaviors because they understand that everyone has their own position and situation.
For some, however, the pattern is just an excuse. They use patterns to justify their selfishness and egoism. They ignore the feelings and rights of others and focus only on their own interests. This kind of pattern of people is hypocritical, they do not really understand and practice the true pattern spirit.
Especially for those who are still struggling for life, the pattern is not what they need. They need real help and support, not empty slogans and advice. While they're running for a living, the pattern doesn't weave them a warm sweater to keep the cold at bay.
Therefore, we should be wary of those who use patterns to disguise their selfish behavior. At the same time, we should also strive to cultivate our own structure, learn to look at problems from a higher perspective, and tolerate and understand different perspectives and behaviors. But in the process, we can't ignore our own rights and feelings. The real pattern is not a disguise of hypocrisy, but is based on mutual respect and understanding. Let's work together to make this world more understanding and inclusive, not a battle of selfishness and self-interest.