The weak learn to remain indifferent
Frail people tend to be like this:
1.I can't sleep well at night, and it's hard to fall back asleep when I wake up in the middle of the night;
2.A little social phobia, and a little stuffy;
3.Lack of self-confidence, insecurity, thinking too much;
4.It is easy to get entangled, and often has more than enough heart to do things;
5.I love to complain, but I don't like to complain, and I always consume myself.
The weak learn to remain indifferent
1.Don't be happy with things, don't be sad with yourself.
When encountering anything, we must always stay calm, maintain a stable mood, learn to understand and accept, and calmly face some unknowns and fears.
2.Don't interfere too much in other people's lives.
Everyone has their own unique energy field, and not interfering in the life and work of others is the best energy supplement for themselves.
3.Don't care too much about the fate of others.
Whether one's own life is happy or not has nothing to do with others. My life is up to me, self-restraint is the best life, I have to be responsible for my own life, focus on myself, don't care too much about the opinions of others, so that life is already 80% happy.
4.Maintain a certain sense of distance.
At work, you must know how to learn to refuse, learn to treat indifferently, and resolutely put an end to those jobs that do not belong to you.
5.Stay away from anything that consumes you.
Learning not to consume oneself is to do high-energy things again. Stay away from internal friction, stay away from some people and things that make you unhappy, keep a positive attitude, and don't complain or complain.
If you want to be strong, you need to surround yourself with people who are positive, energetic, and emotionally stable. Stay away from people who frequently dump the emotional garbage of their lives with you.
Why are you very popular.
1. Don't talk to people.
Don't always talk to others about what you're going through or spread negative energy, no one is too interested in other people's things and doesn't like to receive negative emotions all the time. Everyone likes to be a little sun.
2. Don't be open-mouthed.
Even if it is a good relationship, you should pay attention to the proportions of your speech, do not touch the bottom line of the other party, and being open-mouthed is not the so-called straightforward true temperament, but low emotional intelligence.
3. Speak from the other side's point of view.
When speaking, you should consider the feelings of others, say what you want to convey from the other person's standpoint, and effectively express it is to make the other person feel that you are thinking about him.
4. Pay attention to the occasion when speaking.
For different occasions and different people, it is necessary to understand what to say and what not to say, for example, at important banquets and meetings, it cannot be said in the same way as joking in private.
5. It depends on the person who speaks.
For people with different identities, say different things, such as understanding what the other person's personality and status are, and learning to read and talk to others, which can help you strategize in interpersonal communication.
6. Don't echo the other party's self-blackening.
Don't be stupid enough to go along with others when they are blackmailing, sometimes people laugh at themselves just to make you negate the sentence, not to make you pandering or comforting. For example, when the other party says that he is fat, sometimes what he wants is your denial.
7. Don't gossip too much about privacy.
Control your curiosity and don't keep asking people about their privacy until you don't know each other well. Pay attention to other people's feelings and stop talking about them when they find it difficult to speak. Don't ask questions that others don't answer once, and respect the sense of boundaries when interacting with people.
8. Don't just share and don't listen.
Chatting is mutual, don't talk about your own things all the time, others can't interject a word, and you don't want to listen when others say, which will make others lose the desire to communicate with you. Others also have a desire to express and confide, and sometimes listening more is also a way to make others feel that you are easy to get along with.