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Who is more promising? Analysis from a psychological perspective
Who is more successful, the child who goes out and stays at home or the child who goes out and stays at home? Psychologists have the answer.
I don't know if you have ever encountered such a problem, in the process of raising children, you will often find that some children are lively and active, always like to stay at home, and want to run out to play. However, some children prefer to stay at home quietly and feel uncomfortable when they go out. The main reason for this is the difference in the personality of the child, after all, everyone has their own personality, and different personalities will be reflected in different behaviors.
When considering their child's future development, many parents ask the question: Which is more promising, a child who goes out to play all day or a child who stays at home? To understand the answer to this question, we must start with psychological analysis. In people's subconscious concept, it is believed that children who like to go out to play are particularly extroverted and sociable, which is more in line with the needs of current social development, and the future development path is bright.
However, for children who stay at home, many of them will be labeled"Vulnerable"with"No friends"tags. But is that really the case? Is it true that children who stay at home and don't want to go out really have no future? In fact, this is just a matter of the child's personality, and the personality does not affect the child's future development, and it cannot be said that the child has no future.
In today's society, many people like to be quiet, and the more crowded the place, the more they like to be alone. Because in their world, only being alone can make them feel calm and reflect deeply on their own problems. If you can't understand it, we can also compare them to remote controls: when the remote control is dead, you need to charge it to boost its energy, and being alone is how adults recharge.
When alone or resting, energy can be quickly restored. But this is only for those who prefer to be quiet and stay at home. If you're an extrovert, staying at home will only drain your energy even more. After all, for them, the source of energy comes from the outside world, not from themselves. When they run out of energy, they draw energy from socializing and friendships.
Speaking of which, some people may ask: when did a child's personality begin to form? In fact, scholars have conducted a series of investigations and experiments on this issue, preparing suitable toys for babies over 6 months old, including different types of toys, in order to draw conclusions from the child's choice. After a series of studies, scholars have also concluded that babies already have the three basic temperaments of **, namely composed, lively and cautious.
This temperament is an important factor in the development of a baby's personality. But it is not a decisive factor, in the process of children's growth and development, personality will also change with the change of external factors, such as: parenting form, growth environment, learning environment, etc. Different factors lead to different results. If we want our child to be more productive in the future, we can choose the right career according to the child's personality, put the right person in the right position, and let him play a more important role.