The balance of the winter vacation is running low, and school is about to start. Many parents only ask their children's homework a few days before the start of school, and find that their children's homework has a lot to unfinished, and then in anger, they are likely to lose their temper at their children.
In fact, these things could have been avoided, as long as we cared about the homework a little earlier.
These days, flip through the child's winter vacation homework to see if the child has done it, if the child's homework progress bar is too slow, it's time to urge, or even do one"Overwatch", supervise him.
However, parents need to be "smart" supervisors. First of all, don't blindly deny your child's efforts some time ago. In case you find out that your child's homework is a mess, parents still need to be sane at this moment. If you haven't asked your child's winter vacation homework since the beginning of the winter vacation, and suddenly look through it at this time, most likely it will"Qi and blood are on the head"Target. However, parents need to learn to find out what their child is doing well, for example, if the child has done a certain homework seriously, the handwriting is clear and completed according to the plan, they need to praise the child very seriously. It is also commendable for a child to be able to complete part of their homework without parental supervision, after all, everyone wants to be lazy and playful at times. When parents affirm their child's achievements some time ago and give him advice, it will be much smoother.
Second, don't let your child rewrite it easily. When you see a substandard assignment and even want to tear it up and ask your child to rewrite it, it is generally not recommended to do so. Because this is a big blow to the child, his hard-earned homework will come to naught in an instant. Secondly, this practice can easily increase the psychological burden of the child, and the homework is torn off, which means that the next task is heavier. If you feel that the quality of your child's homework a while ago is not good enough, you can ask your child to do a part of it again, but there is no need to tear off all the work he did before, you can select a part of the quality that really does not meet the completion standard, and ask the child to do better, hoping that he can do better. Of course, when making requirements, we should encourage and expect to coexist, affirm some of the child's own strengths, and put forward some hopes for his next homework, which can maximize the child's willingness to improve the quality of homework during the winter vacation.
If you find that your child's progress is very slow during the process of checking homework, and there is a good chance that you will not be able to complete it if you continue at this pace, then it is time to talk to your child about the next steps. Although the child did not complete the homework progress according to the original plan, parents must uphold the principle of development, and make the child willing to complete the homework seriously and make some progress in the next vacation. Therefore, no matter how dissatisfied with the child's performance in the previous stage, parents still need to calmly discuss the next homework arrangement with the child and strictly implement it. Parents can give their children some rewards for punching in, or let their children propose what rewards they want to get if they complete their homework on time and with quality, so as to make the schedule better implemented.
Winter vacation is hard for both parents and children, but it is this kind of persistence and accumulation that can help children become more and more self-disciplined and excellent.