Each goes back to his own home, finds his own mother, and the post-90s generation opens a new "New Year's way", which causes the elderly to be uneasy
The Chinese New Year is like a rallying cry, and no matter where they are, people always pack their bags with anticipation. However, it is undeniable that this season is also prone to various contradictions.
Small things like deciding how much to bring and choosing who to spend Chinese New Year's Eve with often become points of contention in the family. Perhaps many people have already seen a news story about a woman fighting for the steering wheel with her husband on the highway, and this incident has once again caused widespread controversy in society.
Hearing about this for the first time, many people may think that this woman is too emotional. After all, no matter what happens, such a dangerous behavior should not be taken on the highway and can lead to serious consequences.
However, after learning about the incident, many people changed their minds about it and pointed out that there was a problem on the part of men. It turned out that the husband and wife had agreed to go back to the woman's house for the New Year during the Spring Festival, but the man kept concealing the facts and did not drive in the direction of his home until he hit the road.
Many netizens have said that this issue is not only about the choice of ** for the New Year, but also about the decision agreed by both parties. The man's behavior means that the woman may have prepared for their arrival, but ended up being in vain.
And to the man, it seems to be just an inconsequential matter. Some say the root of the problem lies in differences over the way the New Year is celebrated.
Especially for many women, it seems that once they get married, they can no longer go back to their parents' house for Chinese New Year's Eve. However, as the post-90s generation has grown up, they have changed many traditional ideas about how to behave and behave.
The post-90s generation has opened a new way to celebrate the New Year: they go back to their own homes and find their own mothers, just like college students have a vacation. In their opinion, this will prevent similar problems from happening and make them more comfortable in their respective homes.
For example, netizen Xiao Wu said that in fact, everyone knows that even after starting a family, when the parents of both sides get together, they may feel a little restrained. Maybe parents feel the same way in their hearts, but they are embarrassed to express each other directly.
The post-90s generation took the initiative to propose this new way of celebrating the New Year, which made both parties feel relaxed. As the well-known Internet celebrity Papi-chan said, the parents of both parties have given full support and understanding. However, parents who understand this way may not be in the majority in reality.
Welcoming the arrival of the new year, people are packing up and preparing for the moment of reunion. However, young people in the new era have chosen a unique way to celebrate the New Year, which has sparked differences of opinion between different generations.
Some people shared their "each back to his own home" way of celebrating the New Year on the Internet, which was loved by many young people. However, this practice has aroused doubts among elders and the elderly, and some have even questioned the family concept of contemporary young people and whether it is reasonable.
On the one hand, the previous generation had a more traditional view of the family and the concept of clan, and paid more attention to the evaluation of relatives and neighbors by the outside world. They believe that following the crowd and not being different is the way to survive. Therefore, for this new method adopted by the post-90s, some elders may feel that the world is declining, criticize young people for their lack of attention to family, and even worry about being ridiculed.
On the other hand, some elderly people are genuinely worried about their offspring, because they have rarely seen such a situation in their generation, and they may mistakenly think that there is something wrong with the young family. Although younger generations do not think this concern is necessary, in the eyes of the elderly, it can cause anxiety.
In order to avoid family conflicts and the worries of their elders, some young people choose another way, that is, to travel together instead of going home for the New Year.
For some elders, they want their children to go home "neatly", either out of genuine affection or for fear that their relatives will know that they will "go home" and feel embarrassed. However, a growing number of young people are resenting such demands and are unwilling to succumb to traditional expectations in order to maintain their family image.
The post-90s generation pursues truth, refuses to be superficial, and is no longer willing to be subject to the eyes of relatives and neighbors. They have also taken a completely opposite approach to parenting from the previous generation, focusing more on the real needs of their children.
In the eyes of the post-90s generation, the way of "each returning to his own home" is not a shame, but a reasonable family atmosphere. Some parents are proud of this, believing that this way reflects a harmonious atmosphere, so why not envy outsiders? Therefore, whether the way to celebrate the New Year is humiliating or honorable depends on the individual's mentality and values.
Topic: Do you support this approach?