Some people don't take love seriously, they feel that life is boring, and they want to find someone to pass the time.
In the relationship between men and women, if you often show that you are very talkative, soft-hearted, and easy to behave, then you are likely to be used by others as a boring pastime.
So, don't be sold and help people count the money.
Men have these 3 performances, they just treat you as a pastime, but don't fall deeper and deeper.
If he likes you, he will reply to your messages even if he squeezes in time.
But if he doesn't care about you that much, he won't necessarily reply to your messages even if his phone is next to him.
When you chat with him, no matter how many messages you send, he always doesn't reply to you until after a while, then he probably doesn't put you in an important position.
When he chats with you, he always snubs you casually, and the message is replied to if he wants to, and he is put aside if he doesn't want to reply, which is actually a manifestation of treating you casually.
He may just want to talk to someone when he's bored, but when there's something else to do, he can't care about you.
When you meet such a person, don't think he's busy, and don't be moved by his enthusiasm for giving alms.
You're not unloved, you don't need to be so humble!
Lao Li and his wife have been married for ten years, and the two have always been very affectionate.
In the eyes of outsiders, they have always been the image of a model couple. But what many people don't know is that he once had an ex that he never forged.
But even if he had Bai Yueguang in his heart, he never mentioned this matter to his wife.
Every time his wife asked him how many people he had talked to before, he always jokingly said, "I've talked about a thousand people, it's very charming!" ”
He said: "Why mention it in the past, it will hurt the current feelings if you talk too much." ”
This sentence is deeply true.
If a man likes you, he will cherish the relationship with you.
And once you talk about your ex in front of you, it will most likely cause unhappiness for both of you.
So, if he takes the initiative to talk about his ex in front of you, then he is most likely not interested in you, and just wants to talk to someone when he is bored - and you happen to be the one he regards as a pastime.
In a relationship, the most boring thing is that the other party will only think of you when no one is with you.
If he likes you, he will always think about you, instead of waiting until there is no one around him, only to suddenly remember that there is someone like you to ask out to play.
Every time he asks you to meet, he always tells you:
My good brothers are busy, and I'm bored by myself."
My family has returned to my hometown, and I am the only one left in the family."
All my friends went to accompany my girlfriend, leaving me alone ...... single dog”
And so on and so forth, you should knowYou're just a second-best option for him.
The subtext of these words is almost expressed: If I had someone by my side, I wouldn't have looked for you at all.
Beautiful love is often created by imagination.
So don't have a crush on a man just because he is so close to you.
He is so far away from you because he doesn't value you enough, because he sees you as a pastime, not because he loves you.
You have to know what it's like to be loved, not to be stupid and immersed in the imagination you create, and not to be trapped in someone who doesn't love you.