01 Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law contradictions
Xiaoping is 35 years old this year, and she has been married to her husband for nearly ten years now.
Xiaoping has been very troubled recently, her mother-in-law's birthday is coming soon, and in their family, the birthday of the elders can be said to be a very important event!
This is not only because of respect for the elders, but also because of the cherishing of one's family.
However, this year's situation is really a bit special, and the relationship between Xiaoping and her mother-in-law has become more complicated.
Just some time ago, Xiaoping had an awkward relationship with her mother-in-law for some things in life.
To be honest, sometimes Xiaoping herself doesn't understand why she quarrels, after all, in the eyes of her colleagues, she has always been a gentle person.
In fact, Xiaoping knows in her heart that most of the conflicts are due to the lack of smooth communication between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and there are also problems in mutual understanding.
In order to alleviate the tension between her and her mother-in-law, Xiaoping has been thinking of a way, and she also hopes to take advantage of the opportunity of her mother-in-law's birthday to improve our relationship.
Therefore, Xiaoping has been thinking about choosing a special birthday gift for her mother-in-law.
02Birthday present
After thinking about it, Xiaoping finally came up with a good idea, Xiaoping thought of the last time her mother-in-law saw the bracelet on her mother's hand, she had been amazed, and she must have been very envious.
So she thought of buying a bracelet for her mother-in-law as well.
Xiaoping came to a local high-end jewelry store, and she fell in love with a beautiful bracelet with a few gems on it, which looked very expensive.
asked **, asked for 30,000 yuan, although a little reluctant, but Xiaoping gritted her teeth and paid, mainly hoping to express her heart through this gift.
Finally, on my birthday, the whole family sat around for a meal, and the whole room was filled with laughter.
Xiaoping took out the beautifully wrapped gift and handed it to her mother-in-law.
When the mother-in-law opened the bag and saw the jewelry, her eyes lit up and she smiled from ear to ear, and it could be seen that she liked the gift from Xiaoping very much.
The people next to him also exclaimed, saying that it was too good-looking, and then coaxed Xiaoping's mother-in-law to try it on for everyone to see.
Xiaoping's mother-in-law put the bracelet on her hand, looked left and right, and liked it very much.
Seeing this, Xiaoping was very happy, and she felt that her gift was really right.
Then, the mother-in-law asked casually: "Xiaoping, how much did you spend on this bracelet?"”
Xiaoping told her honestly, "This bracelet cost 30,000 yuan." ”
The mother-in-law was stunned for a moment, put away the smile on her face, and then took off the bracelet and put it in the box: "Why are you so losers, I usually save money and am reluctant to spend it, just to reduce your pressure, you have no conscience, just spend tens of thousands of yuan to buy this useless thing, do you want to anger me?."”
also said that Xiaoping would return the bracelet, but Xiaoping said that it was impossible to return the bracelet if it was sold.
03 Contradictions deepen
was so angry that her mother-in-law went back to the room without eating, and Xiaoping felt very uncomfortable, she just wanted to express a filial heart, how did she become without a conscience?
Thinking of this, Xiaoping also felt very aggrieved, and since that day, the atmosphere between Xiaoping and her mother-in-law has become even more awkward, even worse than before, and this situation has lasted for several months.
On this day, Aunt Tang's family held a happy event and invited their family to drink wine, but Xiaoping found that she was wearing a bracelet on her wrist, which looked very similar to the bracelet that Xiaoping gave to her mother-in-law from a distance.
The curious Xiaoping took a closer look for a long time, and was sure that the bracelet was exactly the same as the one she gave her mother-in-law!
Xiaoping said: "You also have this bracelet, and my mother-in-law also has an identical one." ”
Sister-in-law Tang smiled and said: "Isn't this your mother-in-law's, she sold it to me, I asked your mother-in-law to accompany me to buy bracelets last time, she didn't look good, the most beautiful is the one that my daughter-in-law bought for her." “
I don't believe it, I have to ask her to take me home to take a look, don't say it, I also fell in love with this bracelet at a glance, so I begged your mother-in-law to sell it to me.
She was reluctant at first, but somehow, when I was about to leave, she suddenly agreed again, saying that she was too old to deserve such a noble bracelet.
04 Contradiction unraveled
That night, Xiaoping still asked her mother-in-law about the doubts in her heart, and her mother-in-law said slowly: "Xiaoping, I have received your heart, to be honest, I really like that bracelet very much." But I'm old, I don't need to wear such a valuable bracelet, and I'm not used to it, I don't want you to spend money indiscriminately, that's all, you don't want to be cranky".
When I heard my mother-in-law's words that day, my nose was sore, and I was finally relieved, Xiaoping hugged my mother-in-law and said:"This is our filial piety to you, and it is only natural for children to spend money on their parents. "
On a day off, Xiaoping was cleaning up the room, and suddenly her mother-in-law walked in, handed her an envelope, opened it, and saw that it was all cash.
It turned out that this was the money from the bracelet that her mother-in-law sold before, and she is now giving the money to Xiaoping, hoping to help them relieve their stress.
Xiaoping suddenly felt that she shouldn't have made her mother-in-law sad for so long, but now she finally realized that her mother-in-law is really a good mother-in-law, but sometimes she loves to nag.
But what parent in the world doesn't nag their children?