Parents are 70 percent responsible for today's educational problems
At night, I went to the school to watch the children's physical training, and chatted with the security guard at the door for a while, only to know that the security guard brother was sober.
He told me a story about a child who grew to 1.85 meters tall in the second year of junior high school, because his mother bought him a pair of shoes for 1,000 yuan, and he wanted another pair of shoes for 2,000 yuan. When his father gave him shoes, he actually beat up his father at the school gate, and he was ruthless and accurate. The security guard came forward to stop it, fought with the security guard, and was scolded and jumped after being **. In the end, the security guard said that if you don't apologize to your father, I will call the police, promise to lock you up for a few months, and will expel you from school. In the end, the child knelt down and apologized, and was led home by his father.
Later, the child's father went to the security guard to thank him and tell him about the family.
Both parents worked part-time and could not afford to buy a house in the school district, but they rented a house near the school in advance and went through the temporary residence procedures, so that the child could successfully go to a prestigious school. The child's learning from primary school to the first year of junior high school is not bad, but in the past few years of the epidemic, because of online classes, the child has become addicted to video games, and his grades have dropped again and again. It is also because of the cowardly character of the parents, who will only be unprincipled and satisfied, buy what they want, and will not educate, resulting in their children being willful and selfish. Listening to her mother, she used to call her mother several times because she was not allowed to play with her mobile phone at home, but her mother did not fight back. This time, because he wanted a pair of shoes for 2,000 yuan, he ended up buying a pair of shoes for less than 1,000 yuan, which made him angry and angry, and he actually beat his father in public. Students do not learn well, parents often blame the school teachers for not educating well, in fact, the good and bad of students, we parents should account for 70% of the responsibility!
The security guard said, look at what the children in junior high school have become now, compare clothes and shoes, compare and play with mobile phones. On the shelves at the door, children discarded unwanted cups worth hundreds of yuan, shoes worth thousands of yuan, and brand-name sportswear. And many families of such students are not rich at all, and the children of the poor have almost become the standard in today's society.
With such a child, how can he compete with foreign countries in the future?
reminds me of a news last year, a junior high school girl from a single-parent family, because her mother didn't buy her an iPhone, grabbed her poor mother's hair and tore her in the mall.
Who should reflect on the emergence of these problems?