Well, great love, it's so sacred. As Oscar Wilde once said, "The wonderful thing about love life is that it is a romantic game that both strengthens our self-esteem and keeps us humble." "But to be honest, who doesn't understand the truth, it's as difficult to act as archaeology.
Sometimes, loving someone seriously is like the ancient Chinese literati who looked nobble, but in fact they secretly competed with each other. When we fall in love with someone, we have to be serious, right? But this word serious has often become a ruler that we use to judge each other. We said, "Look at how much I have sacrificed for you, and what about you?" It's like saying, "For the sake of me working so the show, do you have to give a five-star review?" "Is this love? No, it's a deal, and true love should never come with conditions.
True love is acceptance, not coercion. You have to like his bright laugh and even his occasional thunderous temper. Don't shout like the garlic seller following behind: 'Hey, if you're disobedient, be careful that I changed the terms of the love contract!' That's not love, it's called kidnapping.
We always want our partner to be perfect, but we don't know that it's called a sculpture, not a person. Sincere love is tolerance. is willing to stand in the other party's less shining place, and slowly find a way out together. It's not the legendary Prince Charming or Snow White, but the partner next to you who can nibble on instant noodles and enjoy the starry sky together.
However, the current love seems to have become a show. If someone has a candlelight dinner, they have to send a few moments** to prove their happiness. Love is not an exhibition and does not need to be verified. It is a hug that compromises after every quarrel, and the thoughtfulness of silently handing over a glass of water when the other person is too tired to speak.
You know, a true love, it is not a neon sign in a bar, but a warm little table lamp in the home after dusk. It doesn't need to be high-profile, and it doesn't need to be deliberately trying to prove anything. It just needs you to hold on and cherish each other.
To sum it all up, if I had to sum it up in one sentence, it would be: true love is not control, not a transaction, but a life in which both parties actively participate and are happy. Love with a normal heart, you don't have to deliberately show off, you don't have to rush. Love has always been leisurely and far-reaching, painting a bright starry sky with you.