The trade-offs we often talk about are what to give and what to take.
We often talk about the trade-offs that we want to give. Dinners without spiritual nourishment, meetings without thought and discussion value, chicken soup, all kinds of correct nonsense, cheap gifts or even outdated limited editions, or luxury items that are ugly in the sky, etc., these are all garbage that can be thrown away. The so-called reluctance is something that cannot be reluctant, and it is a very good thing. Like fame and fortune, I want to get tired of being together when I have nothing to do, a lot of money, a high-coffee cocktail party gathered by celebrities, going to Europe to take a yacht, etc., not to be blessed or not, but this also consumes huge personal potential, and the measure of time is very fair, you choose the same, and you can't take care of anything else. Of course, the physical body is the same, and the "catching" force is limited when it tosses up and down, and it is difficult to withstand the wind from all directions.
This is the real meaning of the sacrifice, are their own repeated rubbing reluctant to let go of the idea, too fun, too **, too peak experience, what is life for, why not read thousands of sails in a limited year to show prosperity.
It's all about the process, and then there's no then. Those ambitions, those original aspirations are also exhausted in this way.
Let's take a look at what we take, lifelong learning plan, schoolwork improvement, endless thinking, writing reading notes, boring and repetitive fitness, daily porridge and side dishes, wabi-sabi, loneliness, anyway, what is boring will be left behind. Isn't it hard. But that's the point of the trade-off. There is no balance in life, only trade-offs, and a person permanently sacrifices for another person, and the so-called personal value will not last long. Many people analyze Fu Seoul and Lao Liu, but there is nothing to analyze, just talking about Lao Liu's pale and depressed face and crying on the spot, you know that he is unhappy. When people are unhappy, money and fame become the least convincing things.
I once had a young friend, capable, beautiful, working in a popular TV station at the time, there was a work contact, she complained to me that the competition at that time was too fierce (there is no volume of the word), I said that you sell **, interview stars, host important topic programs must be like this, in the eyes of ordinary people, you must know how to give up. But the people who can withstand the test are only a few, and then she committed suicide at a young age, for different reasons, as if it was a financial problem. It's a pity. That's why the trade-off can be fatal. (Zhang Xin).