More of a headache than a wife shortage ? Three strange phenomena have emerged in the rural areas,

Mondo Three rural Updated on 2024-02-05

China has been promoting the construction of urban-rural integration, under the influence of this policyRural areas in various localities have achieved all-round development, and people's quality of life has been guaranteed to a higher extentThe social outlook of the rural areas has also taken on a new look.

In recent years, the most obvious changes have been in the countryside, even in remote mountainous areas, there are straight roadsMany areas have entered the construction of new rural areasAll in all, everything is moving in a good direction.

However, in recent years, various problems in the rural areas have gradually emergedThe most troublesome thing is that there is a wife shortageUnder the influence of the previous patriarchal mentality, the ratio of men and women in China is seriously imbalanced, and this phenomenon is even more serious in rural areas.

This has led to many young marriageable guys in rural areas who cannot find a marriage partnerEven if he has a stable income, he has a house and a car and is still single for many years.

I thought this problem was enough of a headache, but I didn't expect that this has not yet found a suitable solutionThere are three strange phenomena in the countryside, covering almost all the countryside, what are they?

In the past two years, there was a popular saying in society, that is, the urban routine is deep, and I want to go back to the countrysideThe pace of construction and development in various areas of the city is particularly fast, so it also improves its competitiveness.

In recent years, the economic environment has not been ideal, and the money in everyone's hands is becoming more and more unspentAt this time, many people thought that they could find more jobsBut after taking a look around, I found that the current employment pressure is particularly great.

We have always believed that cities have higher prospects and more opportunitiesTherefore, young people want to go out and break through, to prove their worth.

There is also the fact that the cost of living is constantly increasing now, which increases the pressure of lifeIn rural areas, income is limited, so some people choose to go out to work in order to survive.

Influenced by the idea of property speculation, many families will take out all their savings to buy a house in the county or cityOne is to sit and wait for appreciation, and the other is to consider the marriage of the children in the future.

After all, life in the city is more diverse, and everyone has more choices in the way they are entertainedFor example, in the city, you can still order takeout in the early hours of the morning, and you can go out for a walkIn most of the countryside, by about 10 o'clock in the evening, everyone has already fallen asleep.

As a rural person, everyone hopes that their children will not repeat their livesSchooling in cities is more secure and teachers are strongerFor the sake of their jobs and children's future, many people choose to stay in the city even if their lives are stressful.

As a result, there is a serious shortage of young people in many rural areasIt is only during the holidays that you can see some young peopleIn most areas, there are many left-behind elderly people in rural areas.

Without the construction of young people, this makes the village less vibrantNow the countryside is developing in the direction of desolation, and the old houses are uninhabited.

For farmers, it should have been based on agricultural productionBut now the fertile land in many areas is uncultivated, and even overgrown with wild grass all year round.

This situation has led to the loss of rural labor, and there are fewer and fewer people engaged in agricultural production in the current eraYoung people choose to go to the city in search of a better lifeOlder people are no longer engaged in farming activities due to multiple reasons such as physical strength.

This situation has led to a serious shortage of rural labor resources, and many rural villages have become hollow villagesThe elderly are plagued by diseases, and a large number of people die every year, and if this trend continues, rural areas in many areas may gradually disappear.

This situation will only make the development of the rural economy face difficultiesIt will be very difficult to readjust the economic structure of the rural areas, and it will not be conducive to the sustainable development of our country.

A complete family is made up of multiple members, and most of the families are able to live in the same houseSome of the elderly live longer, and they can even see five generations in the same house.

This is undoubtedly the happiest life for many peopleHowever, due to the gradual influx of young people into the cities, many elderly people who have lived in the countryside all their lives are unable to adapt to urban life, resulting in families being forced to separate.

I believe that many people have swiped similar ** on the **platform,The children wanted to be filial to their parents and took them to the house they bought in the cityThe other party was sullen all day.

It wasn't until they returned to the countryside that their parents had changed their mental stateI couldn't stop chatting with my neighbors, and the look on my face changed from loneliness and helplessness to happiness from the heart.

But young people eventually have to return to the city to work, and these old people face lonelinessWhen I was young, I couldn't feel anything about being able to take care of myselfBut once they get older, who will take care of the elderly becomes a big problem.

Children need to work and take on the responsibilities of the family, so there is little time to visit homeThe older you get, the more you like to be lively, and the elderly will sincerely sigh that they miss their children and grandchildren.

Without the company of family,The old age of the elderly will be somewhat bleak, and their health will not be guaranteedOlder people are most afraid of troublesome children, when the body is unwell, they will buy some medicine to take casually.

This leads to some diseases that could have been **, which drag on until the end of the diseaseNot only did he spend most of his life's savings, but he also had to endure the torture of illness, which was more than worth the loss.

Some young couples leave their children in their hometowns after they go out to workThere are elderly people to take care of, but children's growth needs companionship and correct guidance from parents.

Some old people spoil their children without a bottom lineThis affects the child's character, and is not even conducive to the establishment of the correct three views, many children have not become the pillars of the country because they grew up in this living environment.

And many of the courses that children are learning now need parental guidanceMost of the elderly in rural areas have limited education and are unable to provide correct guidance to their children's learning.

In addition, children who have been left in the countryside for a long time lack the care of their familiesMental health problems are easily occurring, and most of such children have low self-esteem.

The problem of left-behind children and empty nesters has become a major problem in the current societyIt has had a great negative impact on the whole society.

China has always attached great importance to the issue of educationThis is the foundation of the country's development, and only after the improvement of educational resources can we provide excellent talents in various fields.

At present, there is a serious involution in schools everywhereFrom kindergarten onwards, children need to attend various cram schools and interest classesAlthough they are under a lot of pressure, it is a stepping stone to enter the society in the future.

Looking back at the children in the countryside, most of them had a happy childhoodThey don't have that much pressure to study, and they don't have a lot of homework after schoolYou can find friends to play in the village every day.

This is undoubtedly good for childrenHowever, this also reflects the uneven distribution of educational resources in rural areas in China, resulting in rural children not knowing what pressure is.

Many parents actually want their children to go to school in their hometownIn this way, you will be less stressedThe elderly in the family can also help themselves to pick up and drop off the children occasionally.

After learning about the local schoolsIt was found that the teaching staff of rural schools was limited and the quality of teaching was unevenAs a result, some schools have a pitifully low annual progression rate.

Most excellent teachers will also choose to go to the city for development, because the salary will be higherAnd the quality of students will be higher, which can show their greatest value.

For a teacher,It is undoubtedly the most glorious that your students can be admitted to key universitiesIt's also the most bragging rights.

Parents definitely want their children to receive a better educationThe so-called red one who is close to Zhu, and black one who is close to inkIf the classmates around him are good enough, the child will have a certain amount of pressure, which can motivate him to study.

Every year it's the beginning of the school yearMany parents will go around giving gifts and looking for relationshipsIn order to be able to send their children to schools in the city, this has invisibly increased everyone's living expenses.

We've been trying to get out of the countryside and we're trying to get our kids out of the countrysideThis was originally intended to develop in a better direction, but in the end, it was found that it was precisely because of people's thinking that the rural life was not secure.

The state has been promoting the revitalization of rural areas, and it is true that the income structure of rural areas has changed somewhat, and most families used to live on the income of a few acres of thin fieldsNow the emergence of various vegetable greenhouses and factories has increased everyone's income a lot.

More and more new houses are being built in various places, and small buildings have been built in many rural areasBut this is just the appearance, many of the small buildings built are empty, and some are not even decoratedNot to mention the rest of the furniture.

What used to be a few hundred households in the village may now be only about halfMost of them are elderly, many old houses have collapsed, the land is deserted, and the whole village feels desolate.

Many rural guys still haven't found a suitable marriage partner, and the wife shortage has been accepted by everyoneIn fact, it is not surprising that these three new phenomena have emerged, which are the products of the development of the times, and there may be greater changes in the rural areas in the future.

want to solve these problems,The state should intensify the construction of rural areas to provide more people with employment opportunities and incomeThis will make young people want to stay and develop.

In fact, if you can make money in your hometown, no one wants to leave your hometownWith the gradual increase of e-commerce platforms, many college students have chosen to go home to start their own businessesIn fact, there are many opportunities in the countryside now, and it depends on whether you are willing to pay hard work and time.

Relevant departments should strengthen the medical security system in rural areas, and also invest more funds and talents in educationIn this way, we can effectively improve the existing problems, and I believe that with the joint efforts of everyone, these problems can be properly solved.

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