The man gave a carton of milk as a blind date gift, and he also sat on a cold bench and waited for the woman's arrival. The woman heard that the man was not satisfied with her experience working at KTV, and was rejected directly. The woman also hoped to be able to add friends to the other party, but the man found an excuse to leave. This blind date scene makes one wonder if it's to find true love, or is it to find an acceptable standard? In today's society, blind dates have become a way for many singles to find their significant other. However, the awkwardness and unpleasantness that often occur during the blind date process also make people start to doubt the feasibility of this method. Blind dates are supposed to be an opportunity to get to know each other and respect each other, but in reality, many people use it as a tool for judging criteria.
The original intention of a blind date should be to get to know each other through communication and getting along to determine if it is suitable. However, some people treat the blind date as an "interview", focusing only on the other person's appearance, background, and work experience, while ignoring the other person's inner qualities and personality. Such a blind date will undoubtedly bring a lot of pressure and unfairness to the other party. Everyone has their own past and experiences, and these experiences do not necessarily fully represent a person's worth and abilities. Just because a person has worked in KTV doesn't mean that she is a bad person or an unsuitable person for marriage. On the contrary, a person's experiences and upbringing will bring her more wisdom in life and rich relationships. In blind dates, we should pay more attention to the inner qualities and personality of the other party.
Appearance and economic conditions are only the surface of a person, and what really determines whether a person is suitable for us is her values, attitude to life and personality charm. These are the cornerstones of a long-lasting relationship. Blind dates are not just about finding an acceptable standard, but more importantly about finding someone who can understand and support each other. Blind dates should be an opportunity to get to know each other and respect each other, not a game of judgment and accusation. Therefore, when going on a blind date, we should pay more attention to the inner qualities and personality of the other party, rather than paying too much attention to the external conditions. We should try to understand the other person's past, experiences, and upbringing, as well as her attitude towards life and marriage. Only in this way can we truly find a partner with whom we can grow and support each other.
A blind date is an opportunity, an opportunity to get to know each other and yourself. We should put aside superficial judgments and standards to discover the brilliance and uniqueness of the other party. Only in this way can we find the other half that is truly suitable for us and go through every stage of life together. A blind date should have been a wonderful experience, an opportunity to get to know each other and respect each other. And not an embarrassing and unpleasant experience. Let's revisit the purpose and meaning of blind dates, as well as our requirements and expectations of each other. Only in this way can we find a partner who is truly suitable for us and create a better future together.
Reference: "Blind date is not an interview, it is an opportunity to understand each other", "Blind date is not looking for standards, but looking for true love" A woman wore bright clothes on a blind date, but the blind date failed. The reason is that she didn't distinguish the occasion, and her dress was too fashionable and not suitable for blind dates in the countryside. Rural men are more inclined to hard-working women, and her dress makes men feel that she is not suitable for development in small counties. In addition, the woman's previous work also affected the outcome of the blind date. The man may not be satisfied with her job and thinks that her job is not good, so he refuses to go on a blind date with her. When going on a blind date, if you really want to get married, you should pay attention to dressing appropriately and not be too fashionable.
Especially in rural areas, women's dress should be more in line with local customs and values. If the woman sticks to her style, that's fine, but she may continue to be rejected by others. In short, the success of a blind date largely depends on understanding and identifying with each other. If the values and lifestyles of both parties do not match, then the blind date is likely to fail.